antz2411 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 (edited) i was out with my chick today and i was thinking to myself how i can keep things going in a positive light instead of dwelling on useless sh it that probably even has no merit whatsoever. so i thought - how can i make things a lot better than yesterday, when i woke up this morning, two hours ago, two minutes ago, that will lead to a better tomorrow.. what i came up with was this - i want to let her feel fascinated by the fact that...i'm fascinated by her so i took her to this restaurant for lunch in town. the inside is always dim full of light and mirrors, and i know she loves mirrors haha my chick enjoys her image from all angles possible; what beautiful woman doesnt?. Also, i believe a woman feels sexier when she looks at herself in a mirror. If there are no mirrors, than you must become yourself a mirror in which she can admire herself. What do you mean? It means that you should show her what her effect on you is: smile at her from time to time, pay attention to her and listen instead of asking her too many questions. since we got over this break up, i've seen 110% effort in her part and about 40% in mine. i do appreciate it. so i wanted to show my appreciation back by making her feel good about herself because i know how it feels when you're always the one making effort and its not reciprocated, it makes you start questioning yourself and its not good for the psyche! you know i wouldn't have thought and acted freely with what i just did today for my girl if i still held bitterness and anger. it really does nobody any good, it holds you back from happiness and the people you love from happiness. a good healthy relationship should be a reflection of who you are. your relationship is a direct reflection of your own self-love and self-worth. Edited October 6, 2011 by antz2411
mike111 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 a good healthy relationship should be a reflection of who you are. your relationship is a direct reflection of your own self-love and self-worth. I think I might agree with a little more analysis of myself
Author antz2411 Posted October 6, 2011 Author Posted October 6, 2011 I think I might agree with a little more analysis of myself with this man, it really comes down to being in the same page with your partner. knowing you and your partner recognize your worth as individuals and when two people have that the only result is a healthy happy relationship. im not saying it is easy to love yourself and recognize your worth because its not. it takes effort everyday in your part to keep loving yourself, when both people do know that they come first before anything, it helps alot in maintaining happiness. that really is the key to life is happiness but you cant drive a car with no keys right haha and the key to happiness is loving yourself. im really grateful that she had maintained a strong enough state of mind during the break up to keep loving herself and so did i. because of it we are in a relationship better than we had before. im the one who got dumped but i was never bitter or angry, i just thought of it as.. hey im sure there could have been a lot of things i could have done better took it as a lesson learned and moved on and she came back after a month. im very thankful for everything, most importantly im thankful for this situtation because it has made me a better man than i was before and it has also made her a better woman. you're a man just like i am and we both know women are in search of men who have a back bone and we are also in search for a woman with a back bone so when we fall they can pick us up and vice versa. moral of the story: all men need to grow a pair and know when its time to move on, move on. too never put anybody above themselves unless its family. SELF PRESERVATION!
mike111 Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 with this man, it really comes down to being in the same page with your partner. with me, it really comes down to being on the same page with 'meself'. I don't often know where that page is at. I need a bookmark, so I can find it. rest of your post was read and acknowledged and appreciated. be well. mike
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