Ruby Slippers Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 My lover turned on the sexual heat the first time we met, and he has not let up. Here's what he did: When I first walked by him, he looked me straight in the eyes and gave me this big, devilish grin. Just from that look, he was very clear about what he wanted. As soon as I smiled back, he immediately approached and started talking to me, then, within minutes, asked if I wanted to go out with him and asked for my number. He texted me as soon as we parted ways so I'd have his number, too. The first time we were alone, he sat himself RIGHT down next to me, made it immediately clear that he wanted to get a little closer, and did. As SOON as he had an in, he went for the kiss. He was respectful of my pace, but he was always driving the action forward and heating it up as much as I would allow. No matter what his shortcomings may be, he does not show ANY shame about them. He's open and honest in discussing them, and he readily admits his faults, but he never apologizes for who he is. He accepts himself as he is but works on improving in many ways. He has a warm, magnetic bravado about what he is capable of and what he will do in the future. This is the essence of confidence. He's not pretending to be anything he's not, but he is comfortable with himself, and that immediately puts the people around him at ease. It's one of the most attractive qualities in a person.
Ross MwcFan Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 (edited) Splash on some Brut. Edited October 7, 2011 by Ross MwcFan
Thierro Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 I think you are adorable. I was always under the impression you were one of the hot shots around here. Smart, funny and exuding sex. You always reminded me of Brad Pitt in 'Fight Club'. Stop caring. Stop needing validation. Be comfortable with who you are and what you want. Never ever settle. Your self-image is something you made up in your mind. It is not who you are. Change comes from doing things out of your comfort zone. Start living...stop caring. The world is a party and you are the host, my friend.
Author USMCHokie Posted October 7, 2011 Author Posted October 7, 2011 I think you are adorable. I was always under the impression you were one of the hot shots around here. Smart, funny and exuding sex. You always reminded me of Brad Pitt in 'Fight Club'. Stop caring. Stop needing validation. Be comfortable with who you are and what you want. Never ever settle. Your self-image is something you made up in your mind. It is not who you are. Change comes from doing things out of your comfort zone. Start living...stop caring. The world is a party and you are the host, my friend. Thanks for this.
Dust Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 I think you are adorable. I was always under the impression you were one of the hot shots around here. Smart, funny and exuding sex. You always reminded me of Brad Pitt in 'Fight Club'. Stop caring. Stop needing validation. Be comfortable with who you are and what you want. Never ever settle. Your self-image is something you made up in your mind. It is not who you are. Change comes from doing things out of your comfort zone. Start living...stop caring. The world is a party and you are the host, my friend. This is good advice. But how the heck did you get a Tyler Durden vibe from Hokie? I’ll give Hokie John McClane at best in his current state.
Art_Critic Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 How Do I Exude More Sexual Attraction...? Walk around with your fly unzipped and your penis hanging out ??? Self confidence in dating and game are learned traits.. You have to learn what works with your personality and looks by trying and failing/changing till you get it right.. Then women will be falling all over you..
jerbear Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Walk around with your fly unzipped and your penis hanging out ??? Self confidence in dating and game are learned traits.. You have to learn what works with your personality and looks by trying and failing/changing till you get it right.. Then women will be falling all over you.. :lmao: He'll get arrested where he lives and he'll be someone's sexual attraction. :lmao: Hokie, my suggestion is to keeping doing what you are doing working out and keeping fit. Get out of your rut. Add a "sexy" hobby like dancing; tango, salsa, swing dance, etc... take time off to learn the moves! After that, go out and dance with every single lady, bring wing women, lead your partner, make them sweat; make the turns fast and hard. Don't be afraid to let the woman go, in salsa that is. Shows them you can lead and you're not afraid to let them show off. The other thing, you can wait till you complete your move west and start a new life.
Afishwithabike Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 All this talk of Hokie's "rockin body" requires him to post some pics of it on LS.
Author USMCHokie Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 :lmao: He'll get arrested where he lives and he'll be someone's sexual attraction. :lmao: Hokie, my suggestion is to keeping doing what you are doing working out and keeping fit. Get out of your rut. Add a "sexy" hobby like dancing; tango, salsa, swing dance, etc... take time off to learn the moves! After that, go out and dance with every single lady, bring wing women, lead your partner, make them sweat; make the turns fast and hard. Don't be afraid to let the woman go, in salsa that is. Shows them you can lead and you're not afraid to let them show off. The other thing, you can wait till you complete your move west and start a new life. I don't need to wait til I move to live my life. I'm ready to start now.
jerbear Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 I don't need to wait til I move to live my life. I'm ready to start now. Ok, just don't follow AC's advice of leaving your fly open and letting it all hang out. About the girl at work, have you asked her out? Like the officer's ball. BTW, asking her out doesn't mean she can't end up being a friend and being a member of your wing women.
Author USMCHokie Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 :lmao: He'll get arrested where he lives and he'll be someone's sexual attraction. :lmao: Hokie, my suggestion is to keeping doing what you are doing working out and keeping fit. Get out of your rut. Add a "sexy" hobby like dancing; tango, salsa, swing dance, etc... take time off to learn the moves! After that, go out and dance with every single lady, bring wing women, lead your partner, make them sweat; make the turns fast and hard. Don't be afraid to let the woman go, in salsa that is. Shows them you can lead and you're not afraid to let them show off. The other thing, you can wait till you complete your move west and start a new life. I don't need to wait til I move to live my life. I'm ready to start now.
Author USMCHokie Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 Ok, just don't follow AC's advice of leaving your fly open and letting it all hang out. About the girl at work, have you asked her out? Like the officer's ball. BTW, asking her out doesn't mean she can't end up being a friend and being a member of your wing women. Hahah, I won't. But I'm over the girl. I hung out with her and some friends from work tonight...completely lost interest...just not my type...
Author USMCHokie Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 All this talk of Hokie's "rockin body" requires him to post some pics of it on LS. There used to be a few...
Dust Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 All this talk of Hokie's "rockin body" requires him to post some pics of it on LS. We have new rule only girls are supposed to put their pictures up to be oogled at here.
Author USMCHokie Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 We have new rule only girls are supposed to put their pictures up to be oogled at here. Hah, fair enough. Besides the ones I have are over a year old. I've gotten fat and lost all my hair since then.
Dust Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Hah, fair enough. Besides the ones I have are over a year old. I've gotten fat and lost all my hair since then. There was the sexy chick in another thread sending out all her pics if you pm'ed her it was great. I doubt your fat.
Author USMCHokie Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 There was the sexy chick in another thread sending out all her pics if you pm'ed her it was great. I doubt your fat. Well that sounds fun. And no, I'm not fat...I'm actually in a lot better shape than I was a year ago when the infamous pictures were taken and posted...never saw the point in taking new ones...
Dust Posted October 8, 2011 Posted October 8, 2011 Well that sounds fun. And no, I'm not fat...I'm actually in a lot better shape than I was a year ago when the infamous pictures were taken and posted...never saw the point in taking new ones... You should take pictures just don't necesarily post them on here. Make Kamille or who ever wants to see them post bikini shots of their own or something.
Author USMCHokie Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 I'm not sure though how that ties into exuding sexual appeal, unless it prevents you from being decisive with your words and your actions towards women you are interacting with romantically. In which case, you'll come across as flakey/wishy washy and you won't be taken seriously (or to such an extent that would sustain a relationship). I don't view you as someone who has issues with attracting women, so I guess the question becomes, at what point does that attraction either stop, become stagnant, or doesn't take flight if at all? The problem seems to be that I can't identify that attraction, and even if evidence supports an attraction, I try to rationalize why it couldn't be real...so then nothing takes flight from it...once I get past the initially hurdle, I think I do pretty well in sustaining the relationship...it's almost like a switch...and I become the decisive leader in the relationship like I am with my Marines.
Author USMCHokie Posted October 8, 2011 Author Posted October 8, 2011 You should take pictures just don't necesarily post them on here. Make Kamille or who ever wants to see them post bikini shots of their own or something. Hahah, quid pro quo... Originally, the pictures were intended for the physical fitness forum for a strictly fitness and training purpose...how that went to hell...
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