Mar1neOne Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I can't stop imagining her being with someone else.... I keep picturing her touching and treating someone else the way she used to touch/treat me and it is a complete mind ****!! Why is it so hard to let that go?
Philosoraptor Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I've had the same thoughts. It's hard to let go of the thought that something you two shared that was so special, she could share with someone else. Truth is though that she is not yours anymore and she owes you nothing. My ex might date soon... who knows? It's nothing I can stop so I'd rather just not think about it. I do wish her well and hope she finds happiness. 'd just rather not see her in that happiness until I'm over everything and healed.
Zabs Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I understand what you mean. I feel like that also over P. The thing is I see things differently. I don't care what he does while we are not together...he on the other hand obsesses over what I 'might' be doing whilst he isn't here/making his mind up whether we have a future or not. In truth, I am not and have not done any thing since. However, I did have a fling with someone in May last year...the thing is...I never knew who the guy was...and THIS year I found out it was one of his friends from growing up!
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