janbaz Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I am in NC with my ex. There is no explicity break up happen. We just distant apart due to less communication. I was trying hard but... cant make it. And she in times used to ignore me a lot and gave lame excuses about not giving me time. And I was continuing with her minimal responses. 3 times, we created 2 to 3 months gap. And then I walked to her. But things remain same. Now from 2 months I am on NC. We work on same place. I avoid making eye contact with her. But mostly when I saw her I catch her eye contact. After a week a chance happens when I encountered her in corridors. But I acted as careless and taking my way. Once when I made an eye contact with the her, she was in very bad face seems showing me anger. Coz I didnt replied her email that she sent to me 15 days back. That how I am doing. Intresting thing is, we work on same place. She has my cell number. She can text me or shot a call to me. Or she can catch me in person (I never talked her in person) But she mailed. In this emotional affair, I never talked her in person. And remain on cell phones and IM. Pitty one me, you can say that I was doing as she was letting me to do. Being first affair of life. I have moved on a lot. Because things are not balanced. The care I have about her, she left even giving damn to it. So if she make eye contact, should I also made? Mostly I avoid. Because, when I notice her around I got butterflies in my stomach . She is a slim girl of age 24 and I am the young man of age 26 with some extra fats. So what you guys think, will she walk to me? If she is making eye contact. Or its just her game to attract me so that I give her ego a boost by breaking NC.
EgoJoe Posted October 7, 2011 Posted October 7, 2011 Ignore her and walk with your head held high until she makes her intentions clear about anything. You deserve to be treated better. Some women in this day and age are absolutely retarded when it comes to emotional matters. Don't bother trying to figure it out. There is no logic to emotional cause and effect.
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