maysj18 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 When youre casually dating a girl, what are the physical signs that make you think she's falling for you? Like what types of affection make you think she's crossed the line from interested to something more? When I'm hanging out with a guy and just having fun or am not sure I want to date, I never like to cuddle, hug, or "kiss". I don't make it awkward, but I just withhold those romantic signs of affection because I'm always nervous it sends he wrong sognal. Does it? Or can I still be sweet without sending "I like you" signals?
Johnny85 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I think most guys interpret the slightest indicator of interest as "she digs me." I think it's fine to be sweet, but cuddling and kissing are intimate ways of expressing affection. If you don't feel comfortable kissing or cuddling with someone cause you're unsure about whether you want to date the guy, I agree, it may be inappropriate, for it sends the wrong message to the guy.
Cypress25 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 Just be sweet in the same way you are with your female friends. You don't cuddle or kiss them, do you?
Author maysj18 Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 I want to withhold just enough so that they know I'm interested, but not head over heels. I just don't know where that line is. I dont want the ones I'm on the fence about to think dating is out of the question.
oaks Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 I want to withhold just enough so that they know I'm interested, but not head over heels. I just don't know where that line is. I dont want the ones I'm on the fence about to think dating is out of the question. This sounds a little bit manipulative. Just be yourself and behave the way you feel rather than trying to second guess (or worse, control) the way someone else will feel.
Nexus One Posted October 6, 2011 Posted October 6, 2011 One of the best universal signals to a guy is to look at him when there's actually no reason to and smile. Do it more than once when needed, feel free to blush. There are guys that still don't get it when that happens, they're usually not that girl savvy or they misinterpret it as friendliness. So to guys who don't get it you'd have to directly tell them: "I like you. As in more than just a friend." *smile*
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