Author Beachgirl8 Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 Ive dated single moms before and they all seem to have so many deep seated issues its impossible to get through to them and a waste of time. How exactly is this opinion of yours helpful to me? This is an advice message board. Incidentally, most of the guys in my age range that I would date are divorced and have children as well.
Author Beachgirl8 Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 I was answering your other question. And I agreed with the guy who said work on yourself and stop taking **** out on guys for no reason. Suggesting that I should work on myself is logical. Im not arguing with that. Suggesting that men should never date single moms and suggesting that we are all riddled with issues and can't be reasoned with is untrue, irrelevant, unhelpful, and hostile.
grkBoy Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 Normally I understand all this. I think I'm just a little burned out on first dates and new guys in general. I think I'm going to self impose a dating moratorium for a month or so, and take a break. Sounds like a plan. It's obvious you're not ready to get involved with anyone.
Author Beachgirl8 Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 Sounds like a plan. It's obvious you're not ready to get involved with anyone. Hmmm, I guess it is obvious. It does help to hear it from an outside source though. So thanks. Most of my friends are married or paired up and they are always so interested in my dating life, and pushing me to keep meeting new guys.They all seem to think I've had more than enough time to get my head cleared from the past and I should be in a new relationship by now. But whatever, it doesn't matter what they think or how much longer it takes me. It's my life. I don't want to get in a new relationship if I can't contribute to it the right way anyway.
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