barriob Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 He text me today and said that we can be friends but i have to move on. I dont know what to think. please help
norajane Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 Jump for joy! Laugh and sing and dance! You are freeeeee! Congratulations! You are free from that miserable loser who took you for granted and made you feel like you were nothing. Freee! Gather your girlfriends and go out and celebrate this weekend. There are so many wonderful men out there who would treat you right and who would be nice to you - please, go out and meet one of them! Forget your ex - he's not worth your emotions.
Author barriob Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 how am i free? he wants to be friends but i dont know.
Rorschach64 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 No friends, that was not your intention with the relationship you use to have with him. Friends with an ex is like saying "Oh it is okay you just pissed all over my love and emotions I had for you and it is SO okay for you to just walk away." Then there is him using you as a security blanket, back up plan, and other crap. You do not need him in your life anymore, anyway you spin it if he does not want you.
Author barriob Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 true. i feel so sad right now. i asked to talk and he said there is no point to talking
Rorschach64 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I am sorry that he said that to you and how you are feeling, I am even more sorry to say this, but he is right there is nothing to talk about. Though I am not sorry to tell you that you will keep on living, smiling, laughing, enjoying life, and going to meet someone just as good if not way better than him. Chin up and start running towards your future! It sucks for awhile but you will get there, we all do.
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