Mae Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I really like one of my good friends. He's kind, I love his sense of humor, and I pretty much find everything about him endearing. But he has a girlfriend, so I have been very careful to not cross that boundary. Recently, I realized that my feelings for him were becoming too strong. So now I feel I have to make a decision. Either I let go and move on, or I let him know how I feel and see where that goes. Do you think it would be in poor taste to confess to someone who is already attached? I am not looking to have him cheat on his girlfriend; I just want closure, whether it be rejection or acceptance.
Author Mae Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 No, he doesn't live with his girlfriend, but they live near each other. They've been together for three years. What I've heard from mutual friends is that he wasn't a great boyfriend in the beginning; he would prioritize his friends over her. But recently he has matured and gotten better at involving her more/being more considerate. I will admit that hearing about how he may not be as into his current relationship anymore has given me hope, as horrible as that sounds.
Dust Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 No, he doesn't live with his girlfriend, but they live near each other. They've been together for three years. What I've heard from mutual friends is that he wasn't a great boyfriend in the beginning; he would prioritize his friends over her. But recently he has matured and gotten better at involving her more/being more considerate. I will admit that hearing about how he may not be as into his current relationship anymore has given me hope, as horrible as that sounds. Just go for it then its his fault for giving you hope. Does he find you sexy?
Author Mae Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 Lol, I don't think it's him who's giving me hope. It's really just my wishful thinking and certain things I've heard and observed. But anyway, to answer your question, I've no idea. He enjoys my company, that's all I'm sure about. Of course, that could be a completely platonic thing on his part, who knows.
Eddie Edirol Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 You already have closure. The closure is that you cant have him. So all you need to do now is fade away.
darkmoon Posted October 10, 2011 Posted October 10, 2011 if he wants you, he will find a way, meanwhile get out more, the situation you're in is not good
Recommended Posts