sarahkm Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 i've been dating this guy for a couple of months. we were friends for about 6 months before we started dating. after being together a couple of months, he started acting weird and distant so i called him out on it. he said he wasn't sure if he saw a future for us. we're 29 yrs old. so from that conversation i gathered we were done. i was ready to let him go. we had the conversation over the phone, but he said he wanted to talk in person. the next day he came over and said he was willing to try again and it was up to me. he then told me about other stuff in his life that is taking a toll on him. i said i'd think about it. then the next day, he came over my place unexpectedly and we ended up talking about us again. long story short, we got back together. but i'm afraid that maybe we didn't have enough time to think things through? i want to be back together but not at the expense of future heartbreak...was it too quick to break up on day 1, him wanting to get back day 2, and i agreeing on day 3? another note is that when he broke up with me on saturday i told him in no circumstances am i staying friends with him, and i am afraid that he might be holding on for that reason, even though he said he is not.
John123 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I've always wondered how I would be able to get back together with someone after they break up with me and not have it in the back of my mind. My girlfriend of two years just broke up with me a few weeks ago and if she ever did decide she wanted to try things again, I don't know if I could ever look at her the same for breaking up in the first place. If they had doubts before then they are likely to have doubts again. I feel like I'd always be bitter and cold and it would never work out in the long run. You may just be postponing your heartbreak. Go with your heart, but make sure his heart is in the same place.
Eddie Edirol Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 If you cant be sure of the real reason he broke it off with you, like there may have been someone else that didnt work out...then you better keep yourself away from him. When people get distant, thats usually the reason, it also explains the quick breakup and quick asking for you back.
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