lemonlegs Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 (edited) I'm not sure which forum to put this in because it isn't directly about cheating. Basically, a good guy friend of mine (or so I thought) and me slept together while both of us were single a couple of months ago. Since then, we have fell back into friend mode with no problems and have both started seeing our exes again. Normally, I wouldn't stay in casual contact with him but we're in a class together and being friends just makes it easier. However, in the past week or so, he's been sending me sexual text messages with me telling him that I don't like being seen as a sexual object to him (after him explicitly stating that I'm simply a friend he wants to bang.... again) and that he should focus on his ex if they want to make it work. He then asked, "So you're saying that if I made a move on your when we were alone by chance, you wouldn't go with it?" and I of course said no for the sake of me talking to my ex and the fact that he's with his as well, and he said "What if it was really good?". Him saying this indicates he has no problems with cheating. I really want to just sit him down and tell him to seriously think about what a slimeball he's being... and maybe, hopefully make him see things more clear for him, by being brually honest. I know that if it's not going to be me, it'll most likely be some other girl. Is this a good idea, or should I let it be? Opinions? Edited October 5, 2011 by lemonlegs
motive2002 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 If he really is a good friend, he'd respect your boundaries once you've made things crystal clear for him.
kodax Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 This guy sounds like a complete sleazebag and I doubt anything you say to him is going to change that.
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