Buttercup84 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 What I don't miss : Rejecting me for sex The criticism Spending more time on his computer than with me His temper His guns and hunting animals for fun Putting me down Never thinking it's his fault Him being anti social Never taking me for dinner Using me The lies His family Treading on egg shells A lot more
ken_25 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 What I don't miss : Rejecting me for sex The criticism Spending more time on his computer than with me His temper His guns and hunting animals for fun Putting me down Never thinking it's his fault Him being anti social Never taking me for dinner Using me The lies His family Treading on egg shells A lot more Well played.
Thieves Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 There is just so much.... I miss being told about how amazing his other girl is. F*cking check. I miss walking on eggshells trying to please a man who was running around on me. Check. I miss feeling as if nothing I did was good enough. Cheeeck. I miss having all my flaws thrown in my face/pointed out. Check. I miss waiting around wondering if he's screwing her. Check. Ugh. I miss compromising EVERYTHING for him and not getting anything back. Check. I miss being spoken to like a child. CHECK. Note to ex: Don't ever call me 'kiddo' again. Like, ever. No, seriously. I miss doing nice things for someone who never showed appreciation. Check again, damn it. I miss the lack of sex. Thankfully, I don't have to say 'check' on this. Wait, wait... No I don't. Ha nevermind. I was thinking of not even responding to this thread because it would've done me no good. And I was going to ask what the point of it was, but thankfully someone else beat me to it. Obviously it wasn't really all that good, and more often than not.. the bad outweighs the good.
Author larryfine Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 Quick question: What's the point of this thread? What's the point of any thread? I posted this thread because I feel better when I commiserate with others (which is what I wrote in the OP). I feel like I just lost my best friend. I know that I have to be strong but it helps to sit and "talk" with others about what hurts. To deal with the pain you have to identify what hurts.
radiodarcy Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 the person he used to be. but of course - - even then - - he was only that person when he felt like it. like if he wasnt too busy working on his car, looking at camera equipment, chatting with other girls as Thieves said, the bad pretty much outweighed the good to the point where the good doesn't even make a difference to me anymore.
LoneWolfie Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 This thread has been playing on my mind since I read it! One thing that I really really do miss about her is that she always accepted me for exactly who I was. I never had to put my guard up around her at all. I sometimes have a real case of foot-in-mouth syndrome where I'll just say something without thinking what I'm saying, or other times will just zone out into a daydream. The joys of being A.D.D. And she never gave a sh*t about it. Wherever I've been in life I've always been an outcast of some sorts, but with her I finally belonged to something. I really miss that social convention just did not matter to either of us when we were together and we could just be ourselves. Your avatar just made me cry like a 5 year old whose favourite toy was destroyed. All my heartache and missing her just flooded back in. I want her back, i'd do anything to get her back. I miss seeing her running at me and hugtackle me when we see each other again after being apart for several days. I miss her laying on my shoulder and hearing her purr like a cat when i stroke her back. I miss her random cuddles from behind when im busy playing videogames. I miss hearing her talk about where she would like us to get married in several years. I miss hearing her say how she loves me more than she has ever loved anyone in her life. I miss her excitement when she tells me about some historic fact she learned in uni that day. I miss her beautiful bambi eyes and perfectly shaped body. I miss her compassionate and caring nature, and how she wants to help everyone and give everyone whose sad a hug and warm smile. ARgh, i miss her so much i want her back so badly....
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