larryfine Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I miss hearing her laugh at my stupid jokes. I miss waking up in the middle of the night and sliding over closer to her. I miss her smell. I miss making her dinner. I miss spending Sunday nights with her watching Dexter and The Walking Dead ("Morbid Sunday" we used to call it). Sorry if this is depressing but I feel like commiserating to deal with some pain right now.
Buttercup84 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I miss waking up next to him and cuddling weekend mornings , watching how I met your mother together , him putting his arm around me when we walked up the street , him calling me by my nickname , having tickle fights , getting little gifts , stroking his hair and kissing ..
immitable Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I think I miss the security of a relationship and I miss the person I thought she was.
mike588 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I miss hearing her laugh at my stupid jokes. I miss waking up in the middle of the night and sliding over closer to her. I miss her smell. I miss making her dinner. I miss spending Sunday nights with her watching Dexter and The Walking Dead ("Morbid Sunday" we used to call it). Sorry if this is depressing but I feel like commiserating to deal with some pain right now. All of those above and holding hands, Sundays mornings having coffee together and reading the paper, skinny dipping, telling her how beautiful she is/was, taking her out for dinner, movies and just being with her.Ouch now I'm getting depressed!ha.
B_55 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I miss getting a good bye kiss before I go to work, Talking about our days when I got home, and waking up and seeing her asleep next to me.
samphs Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I miss his smell, one of the things I miss the most is his smell, I also miss his face smiling at me. I miss showering with him on weekends, I miss watching him play videogames... I miss US what we were together...
ken_25 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I think I miss the security of a relationship and I miss the person I thought she was. this sums it up.
dicky_fish Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 All of our stupid in-jokes. Cooking stuff together. Going off for city breaks. Her giggle and cutsy way she'd talk to me when we were being soppy. Oh, and I really miss having totally wild, passionate (and noisy) sex sessions....
Buttercup84 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I miss getting a good bye kiss before I go to work, Talking about our days when I got home, and waking up and seeing her asleep next to me. Oh yes the morning kiss . Or when I got home . Bloody hell
shayla Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 (edited) I think I miss the security of a relationship and I miss the person I thought she was. Whoomp there it is! The other woman asked me if I love him....love him? I don't even know who he really is! I love the fake man, the one that never really existed! Edited October 4, 2011 by shayla
Author larryfine Posted October 4, 2011 Author Posted October 4, 2011 Oh, and I really miss having totally wild, passionate (and noisy) sex sessions.... Wow. Yeah. I miss that too. Man... I also miss watching the Food Network with her. And going to concerts... Aw crap. I feel really low. But I feel a little better letting it out.
noel2 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 The end of the day when I get to lay in his arms and feel safe and feel all the stress of the day just melt away.......sounds dorky, but its how I feel.
mike588 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 The end of the day when I get to lay in his arms and feel safe and feel all the stress of the day just melt away.......sounds dorky, but its how I feel. Not dorky at all. I miss her laying in my arms.
dicky_fish Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 This thread has been playing on my mind since I read it! One thing that I really really do miss about her is that she always accepted me for exactly who I was. I never had to put my guard up around her at all. I sometimes have a real case of foot-in-mouth syndrome where I'll just say something without thinking what I'm saying, or other times will just zone out into a daydream. The joys of being A.D.D. And she never gave a sh*t about it. Wherever I've been in life I've always been an outcast of some sorts, but with her I finally belonged to something. I really miss that social convention just did not matter to either of us when we were together and we could just be ourselves.
FeelingSmall Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 There is just so much.... I miss being told about how amazing his other girl is. I miss walking on eggshells trying to please a man who was running around on me. I miss feeling as if nothing I did was good enough. I miss having all my flaws thrown in my face/pointed out. I miss waiting around wondering if he's screwing her. I miss compromising EVERYTHING for him and not getting anything back. I miss being spoken to like a child. I miss doing nice things for someone who never showed appreciation. I miss the lack of sex. Wait, wait... No I don't. Ha nevermind.
LelouchIsZero Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 Quick question: What's the point of this thread?
Rorschach64 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 To answer that question, simply put, not moving on and keeping their ex's on the pedestals. No offense guys, tough love here, but you need to stop missing your ex's because there is a high chance they ain't coming back and they are not worth reminiscing. I know I don't want to think about the person that could care less about my feelings or my life, I don't need her and you don't need your's either.
futuregopher Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 Let's hope we all have the same feelings later on when we meet that special someone again!!!
Rorschach64 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 You will I know I felt like I was going to be dead on the inside and never trusting anyone ever again if they can just up and leave just like that, but recently I am feeling the opposite because of a girl! We can all do it!
ffw Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 Nothing. I dont want to dig the grave again. Its better to move forward than looking at the past with if's & but's.
Jonnyy Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 As soon as i saw this thread i knew i was going to have to post in it. What i miss about my ex? Having someone to kiss Having someone that was always there for me My best friend Just being the "old married couple" we used to call ourselves, because we would just be happy by being by ourselves and staying in for the night and making some food watching a movie. Seems like now she didnt even appreciate it. Her brother/family What i DONT miss about my ex? ALWAYS having to be the one to ask if she wants to do something ALWAYS being the one who had to initiate the next step in our relationship Her ALWAYS leaving early because "she was tired" Her constant poor self body image, even though i was with her on this every step of the way and tried my heart out to help her. Having to practically do her homework for her because i was such a nice guy and couldnt stand seeing her get so stressed over it. Her being able to do things, but then when i do them she would get upset Her NEVER being "in the mood" I waited for her because she wasnt ready to have sex yet. She wanted to wait until the 2 year mark of our relationship. We broke up a couple months shy... Really? Her severe pickiness about food. SEVERE I never really realized it until now but she talked alot of **** about people Im sure there alot more things to add to both lists. But it makes me feel better seeing how much longer the dont miss list is
Ginger Beer Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 There is just so much.... I miss being told about how amazing his other girl is. I miss walking on eggshells trying to please a man who was running around on me. I miss feeling as if nothing I did was good enough. I miss having all my flaws thrown in my face/pointed out. I miss waiting around wondering if he's screwing her. I miss compromising EVERYTHING for him and not getting anything back. I miss being spoken to like a child. I miss doing nice things for someone who never showed appreciation. I miss the lack of sex. Wait, wait... No I don't. Ha nevermind. Good post, I was gonna post there are actually more things about my ex that I don't miss than those I do. You put it better than I could have though.
dicky_fish Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 This is quite an odd thread for me. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3658821#post3658821 Last night I posted on here about the fact I'm actually missing the things that irritated me about her and it hasn't been off my mind since I posted, then this thread came along. Love is a strange and puzzling beast sometimes.
Damia Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 Good thread! It has make me realize how far I have come in my healing the only thing I miss is having a little bit of "back up" I was essentially parenting on my own and doing my own thing while he hung with his mates and had his flings and affairs. I certainly don't miss the bull**** ,"feeling small" said it well I do however find it amusing his AP has him on a leash so short he can hardly breathe,no mates,flings or affairs for him now ha ha:D
Recommended Posts