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heh im not arnold but i do work out a bit and thanks. tc :)

 

Cool. You don't have to be Arnold no way (I prefer leaner muscular guys myself)... but if you're kind of athletic looking with some muscle definition, you're probably hot heheee

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People that tell themselves and others they are ugly are ignorant and full of self-pity.

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No I'm no show-off and i know it's a weird subject, it's just that people are only honest with you on the internet and I really want to know the truth. I know that beauty is different for everyone but I really want your personal opinion of me. And don't tell me that I lack confidence or that I should have a better opinion of me etc.... I just want your personal view of things. If you think I'm ugly say it, but say why pls lol!

 

Me:

 

http://nsm05.casimages.com/img/2011/10/04/111004033814448708842845.jpg

 

http://nsm05.casimages.com/img/2011/10/04/111004033813448708842844.jpg

 

Ugly? Because women value self-confidence more than looks...

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The first pic. :)

 

The second one, you seem angry. :(

 

Seconded. :)

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I know I am, but cannot be realistic or accept it.

 

So, you say that you are ugly. Why do you bring this as a fact?

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No I'm no show-off and i know it's a weird subject, it's just that people are only honest with you on the internet and I really want to know the truth. I know that beauty is different for everyone but I really want your personal opinion of me. And don't tell me that I lack confidence or that I should have a better opinion of me etc.... I just want your personal view of things. If you think I'm ugly say it, but say why pls lol!

 

Me:

 

http://nsm05.casimages.com/img/2011/10/04/111004033814448708842845.jpg

 

http://nsm05.casimages.com/img/2011/10/04/111004033813448708842844.jpg

 

I also cast my vote for the first picture rather than the second. In the second you're giving off an aggressive attitude, and the look in your eyes seems like a combination of fear and anger.....as though somebody just interrupted your ipod-listening session to invite you outside for a fight.

 

In the first one, the expression in your eyes is all soft and loved up - suggesting a strong romantic attachment to the woman sitting next to you. It wouldn't be a good dating site pic, in my view (if that's the aim of posing the pics for opinions), because it makes you look like you're already committed...but it is an attractive pic.

 

I think a broad smile would be the most attractive and masculine pose for you to go for if you want a pic that would be good for a dating site. As for whether you're attractive...overall I'd say you're attractive. You have expressive eyes, which is an asset or a liability depending on what's going on for you emotionally.

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I've had multiple people say it to my face multiple times since 7th grade and till this day(I'm 36) It's the foundation of how I came from being a sweet, loving, A-personality good boy(pre-teen me) to this sadistic, hateful, disturbed, emotionally f'cked, twisted thinking bastard I am now.(36 years old)

 

I've never been one to forgive and forget and I let all negative comments eat my soul all these years....

 

Feel sad for me.....NOT.

 

You do realize that there are over 6.5 billion people? What is the percentage of all these people that told you you are ugly?

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You do realize it is impossible to meet 6.5 billion people? If could, then I bet the percentage would be great...

 

I've met enough people in my travels to realize that I am of a below average, undesirable, and should be thrown out kinda person physically in this survival of the fittest kind of thing.

 

A reason for me to never be in a relationship or spawn is I cannot put a child through this if he too develops a less than desirable physical traits.

I've also been told never to reproduce....the guy I beat the hell out of on the job told me that....I flipped out....cannot take it anymore after a while and I feel it will never stop.....leaving me two choices of what to do about it for the rest of my life...

 

Play the cards you’re dealt. Life may be easier if the general consensus agrees with a certain man/woman’s attractiveness, but it shouldn’t withhold you from enjoying life as it is. You probably don’t have any severe deformities. But even if you had any, there are always a lot of guys/girls that like you or find you attractive.

 

You need to make it work for your own good.

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I also cast my vote for the first picture rather than the second. In the second you're giving off an aggressive attitude, and the look in your eyes seems like a combination of fear and anger.....as though somebody just interrupted your ipod-listening session to invite you outside for a fight.

 

In the first one, the expression in your eyes is all soft and loved up - suggesting a strong romantic attachment to the woman sitting next to you. It wouldn't be a good dating site pic, in my view (if that's the aim of posing the pics for opinions), because it makes you look like you're already committed...but it is an attractive pic.

 

I think a broad smile would be the most attractive and masculine pose for you to go for if you want a pic that would be good for a dating site. As for whether you're attractive...overall I'd say you're attractive. You have expressive eyes, which is an asset or a liability depending on what's going on for you emotionally.

 

Actually im single that was my ex and yeah i was trying to do the angry look lol. It's just that i end up always with the wrong girl and when there is a girl i really like i get dumped, sometimes girls plays it very hard to get and i just can't understand why or what im doing wrong. I have a little bit of lack off confidence when it comes to look and i never knew why so i think i have 1 more thing to work out on. Thanks a lot everyone for your comments and feedback that means a lot :)

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You know what it is with photo's? They don't give a good representation of a person's looks in my opinion. People look like freaking different persons in a lot of their photo's. Angles, lighting, lenses etc, it all contributes to a particular look.

 

Facebook galleries tend to confuse the f*ck out of me, especially the ones of women, because they tend to alter their look often by changing their hair style and hair color. While I personally like that they can change themselves like chameleons, it just leaves me wondering, "yeah but what's your natural look"? Or how do you look when I meet you? That confusion does not help a person, it'll only push forward the moment until someone can get a good look at you.

 

Sometimes the camera is gentle on you and sometimes it it's not. And sometimes even video doesn't cut it.

 

I've found that personality can be so powerful in elevating someone's attractiveness. It can also destroy someone's attractiveness.

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