little_bear Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Having only been together for a month, is it too soon to be taking a 4 day long trip together? Could this possibly ruin the relationship?
oaks Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Having only been together for a month, is it too soon to be taking a 4 day long trip together? It might be. Could this possibly ruin the relationship? It possibly could. Seriously, based on what you've told us, how could we know?
Author little_bear Posted October 4, 2011 Author Posted October 4, 2011 I'm worried because we don't see each other often. We both work full time and hes also in Uni so suddenly being together for 4 days straight might be overwhelming. We'll be an hours flight away from home.
Ruby Slippers Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 If you enjoy yourself and have a good time, it should only strengthen the bond. If you argue and don't have fun, it will most likely weaken it. I'd go with the intention of having a good time and enjoying myself. Unless he's a weirdo, this should have a good outcome.
Pasttense Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 (edited) Have you two already been sexually intimate? Or is this something you expect to first happen on this trip? Or worse, do the two of you have differing expectations about sex on this trip? Edited October 4, 2011 by Pasttense
oaks Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I'm worried because we don't see each other often. We both work full time and hes also in Uni so suddenly being together for 4 days straight might be overwhelming. We'll be an hours flight away from home. So 4 days will be more than the total amount of time you've spent together so far? You'll find out one way or another whether you can have a relationship with this person.
st11 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Given you didn't really provide any detail of how the relationship is now all I can say is.....Why not do it!! Real quick way to find out if your compatible. I was in the same boat last month, went for an extended weekend trip and it turned out to be one of the best trips I ever had!! We had such a great time! Followed up by two more extended weekend trips right after that! So in short the only one that can decide is you and how you feel about the situation.
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