Dblock10 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 pretty much sums up how i feel. the fact that she is travelling the world for the next 6 months! its only been a week that she's been gone and it feels like forever. in total i havent seen her for 9 weeks maybe 10. and we have spoken twice in that time frame. both times because i was the one who initiated it. one time was on fb the other was a goodbye have fun txt before she left. she replied both times. anyway. i feel jealous of people who get to see there ex or arrange a meet up. my situation sucks ass because she literally wont be in the same country for half a year. let alone living 3 hours away even when she does return. fighting a lost cause i am. i am in no contact. not to win her back. but because ultimately what can i do.
antz2411 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 dood, let me ask you a question... when she comes back and you meet her for lunch or dinner.. and she says " hey baby, these 6 months i was away i know i was in another country, i made a big mistake and i got railed by this guy! but i want you back" would you take her back?
stillafool Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 dBlock you are somewhat fighting a losing battle. It doesn't really matter that she is going to be away for 6 months. If she wanted to get back with you she would have made contact more than twice in 10 weeks. The fact that she will be away 6 months is definitely putting more space between you and I think you should consider this relationship over. You have to get some counseling and get back on track.
Author Dblock10 Posted October 4, 2011 Author Posted October 4, 2011 dood, let me ask you a question... when she comes back and you meet her for lunch or dinner.. and she says " hey baby, these 6 months i was away i know i was in another country, i made a big mistake and i got railed by this guy! but i want you back" would you take her back? yeah antz this goes through my head a lot. because it puts me off of them completely. so i feel sad that that will be the reality of this whole ordeal stillafool, you are right and it makes me sad.
smudge21 Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 I wish my ex was in another country as it would take away that sad temptation I sometimes get to go see her... Sometimes we are so weak that we need NC forced upon us in some way. I know my ex would talk to me if I contacted her, but I won't do it cos I know it will only lead to me feeling terrible.
Author Dblock10 Posted October 5, 2011 Author Posted October 5, 2011 dBlock you are somewhat fighting a losing battle. It doesn't really matter that she is going to be away for 6 months. If she wanted to get back with you she would have made contact more than twice in 10 weeks. The fact that she will be away 6 months is definitely putting more space between you and I think you should consider this relationship over. You have to get some counseling and get back on track. this is true. but i know she wanted to be single on this trip. otherwise you are right i am pretty sure she would have been in contact. the problem is, i know its over. i cant accept that she doesn't talk to me now. and its this that is my issue, its going to really really make us become strangers and i cant handle that. i dont want her to become the past. so my only option is to talk to her perhaps. but again what would it achieve, would it achieve that i get to not become a stranger, would it be sincere from her talking to me. would i be able to handle it. knowing what she is actually up to on the journey
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