indy_colts_fan Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I need some advice... I meet this woman a few months ago at a house party and was attracted to her and I've seen her out a few times since. I'm usually not the shy type, but I experienced a huge loss over a year ago (tragically lost my wife) and I can't seem to find the "balls" to even buy her a drink, say more to her than "hello". Like I said, I'm usually not intimidated by women and have no problems talking with them, but for some reason, I just can't find it in me to approach her. I've watched her several times and she isn't the stuck-up type... probably why I find her so attractive. so cause I feel like a total loser or some type of fear of rejection... what should I do to get to know this girl a little more???
smudge21 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I'm guessing she's a friend of a friend, so couldn't you see if there's any more gatherings coming up and meet her again that way, maybe make some small talk and see how she responds. Also, as there will be a mutual friend, it would be handy to know a little about her beforehand. I'm not saying her life story, but at least if she is available.
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