Malaka Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Guys/gals..Do you think its possible for someone to realize how much they love someone when time is spent apart? If someone told you they didn't love you anymore, in time, can they realize that they cant be without you?
Dark Phoenix Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Guys/gals..Do you think its possible for someone to realize how much they love someone when time is spent apart? If someone told you they didn't love you anymore, in time, can they realize that they cant be without you? It happens, it has happened to two of my friends. One of them got married two years ago after being split up with his now wife for 3 months, the other friend is engaged. I wouldn't hold a lot of hope because it happens very... VERY rarely and typically it doesn't last, my two friends are the exceptions I guess and that isn't to say that their marriages will be until death do them part.
barriob Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 i hope so. cause i need my ex to miss me. i am staying away from him, he took me for granted and treats me like im nothing
norajane Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 i hope so. cause i need my ex to miss me. i am staying away from him, he took me for granted and treats me like im nothing If he took you for granted and treated you like you were nothing, why in the world do you want him back? Wow, as a single person you have the opportunity to meet someone else who would treat you like he cared about you, and who would appreciate you. So why are you hoping that the guy who treated you badly comes back? If someone told you they didn't love you anymore, in time, can they realize that they cant be without you? Anything is possible. But I wouldn't live my life on hold waiting for it.
barriob Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 If he took you for granted and treated you like you were nothing, why in the world do you want him back? Wow, as a single person you have the opportunity to meet someone else who would treat you like he cared about you, and who would appreciate you. So why are you hoping that the guy who treated you badly comes back? Because i miss him and maybe think that he will realize what he did one day. i was so nice to him, i cared so much for him.
norajane Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 what do you think? I think you deserve someone who is nice to you and who cares about you, just like you were with your ex. I think you shouldn't spend any time missing a guy who wasn't nice to you, and who didn't show you that he cared about you. A guy who treats you like you are nothing is a terrible kind of guy to have in your life. And that kind of guy will soon make you FEEL like you are nothing - stay away from guys like him. There are so many wonderful men out there! Find one who treats you well!!!
barriob Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I think you deserve someone who is nice to you and who cares about you, just like you were with your ex. I think you shouldn't spend any time missing a guy who wasn't nice to you, and who didn't show you that he cared about you. A guy who treats you like you are nothing is a terrible kind of guy to have in your life. And that kind of guy will soon make you FEEL like you are nothing - stay away from guys like him. There are so many wonderful men out there! Find one who treats you well!!! I know, but i fell so hard for him. Why does he treat me like this after everything i did for him? I text him and he doesnt respond. but the responds days later and says he was busy. but iit only takes seconds to reply
Thieves Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Guys/gals..Do you think its possible for someone to realize how much they love someone when time is spent apart? If someone told you they didn't love you anymore, in time, can they realize that they cant be without you? It can happen. It seems pretty rare, though. You don't know how long it could take either. It could take anything from a year to two years to five years... You'd be surprised with some people. In any case, are you going to sit around and WAIT for it to happen? Are you truly going to put your life on hold, and spend your time waiting for someone that may never even come back? Or are you going to try and move on, no matter how painful it is, and grow as a person whether he's in the picture or not?
Lucio Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 it can happen. but even if it does happen, a decade is most likely to have passed, you will probably never get to know about it, and it doesn't mean he will come back. don't spend your life thinking about this too much, especially if the result is so inconsequential.
norajane Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I know, but i fell so hard for him. Why does he treat me like this after everything i did for him? I text him and he doesnt respond. but the responds days later and says he was busy. but iit only takes seconds to reply It really doesn't matter WHY he does it - the fact is he treats you badly. Those are the kinds of guys to run away from because there are many men who would treat you well. A better question is: Why do YOU keep texting a guy who treats you badly? Why do you want a guy in your life who treats you like you don't matter to him?
barriob Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 umm good question: i think its because i am afraid to move on. I was in love with him and he was my first. I thought he was different and i didnt think it would end this way. He would always tell me that he loved me and all this other sweet stuff. he said he was lucky to be with me. i think that maybe one day he will change and realize what he did to me
Chi townD Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Guys/gals..Do you think its possible for someone to realize how much they love someone when time is spent apart? If someone told you they didn't love you anymore, in time, can they realize that they cant be without you? It's VERY possible. But love doesn't stop them from coming back. It's pride. It's admitting they were wrong and come back humbled.
Thieves Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 umm good question: i think its because i am afraid to move on. I was in love with him and he was my first. I thought he was different and i didnt think it would end this way. He would always tell me that he loved me and all this other sweet stuff. he said he was lucky to be with me. i think that maybe one day he will change and realize what he did to me Two of the most important things you'll learn about relationships: 1. Actions more than words. He can tell you he loves you till the cows come home, but he also needs to SHOW it and be consistent. He can say, "I love you, I never had someone like you, I want to be with you forever" all day long, but if he's not listening to you, not being considerate of your feelings, dating other people, or ignoring you, what does that say? 2. Feelings can change. Simple, but the hardest thing to swallow. A lot of us are in denial about this when we're healing.
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