shes not ready for a relationship just wants to be friends??

[night hawk]

my ex gf and i have been friends for about 4 years she has not dated anybody in that 4 years she was in a very bad relationship before that and it really messed her up. I always wanted to date her while we were friends but she wanted nothing to do with it i believe she was still hurt. Then out of the blue she texted me saying she wanted to date i didnt get to excited about at first i didnt think she was to serious. So we started dating and things went really really well she has a 3 year old boy i was becoming close with him she actually said he adored me. she was pretty busy with him and going to school and work so we only hungout 3 times a week or so but we kinda of talked about her moving in with me. We only dated for about 2 amazing months Then bam she told me she doesnt want to be in a relationship and just wants to be friends via text message. she said she dont have time for a bf with school work and her kid. I was crushed i asked her if we could take things slow the answer was No. I told her she could quit or cut back on work i would support her so she could focus on school. she said shes an independent person and dont rely on others which she is i do believe her. I just want her back i would do anything i thinking of doing NC but its going to be hard very hard.Any suggestions??

[antz2411]

yeh, grow a pair of nuts and move on