mike588 Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 (edited) As far as a partner being/becoming Unemotionally Attached what does it mean. It seem pretty like a pretty open and shut question but does it go deeper than that? I understand that if your in a relationship that's going down the drain he/she may distance themselves from the other and become "Unemotionally attached". Is that all it means?? If a person is this way most/all of the time is it due to underlying problems, trauma, childhood issues etc. Will they bounce around from one relationship to another trying to fill a void in their head/heart,, searching their soul for happiness? I see if your in a rebound relationship you will "use that person" as a crutch and never really become emotionally attached. My now ex. who dumped me told me that was confused,, not so sure if she capable of loving anyone,, or capable of how she feels. What? Now she's back with her ex. Is this a typical sign of an Unemotionally attached person? I learned an important lesson about rebounds but what about a woman who has had other issues in her life as above. Edited October 4, 2011 by mike588
Dark Phoenix Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Look up BPD, egocentrism, and check the gigs thread if you haven't already. Also take a look at Wilsonx's thread about no longer being attracted to someone (sorry, I forget the name of the thread but it is in his signature). I see 'unemotionally attached' as being attached to someone by the mere fact that they have become familiar to the person, but other factors obviously can take play here.
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