PrissyCilla Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 I am a 19 year old woman and i have two guys after me. Guy1: is 18. Me and him have been going out for 1.5 years. Longer if you include our online relationship He always treated me really great. Like i was gonna break if he wasn't careful with me. Me and him have never gotten into a shouting match or a big fight. Like hes really good at not getting angry and calming me down. He doesn't talk a lot. And hes a macho guy. But when its just me and him he can be so sweet. Like when he tells me how he feels about me. And how much he loves me. I just feel so great. Sometimes i just cry because i'm so happy that i have him. And i love him so much. I lost my virginity to him and it was...amazing. Like i know i haven't been with a lot of guys. But when i'm with him i can't even put words together i can't see straight all i can feel is just pleasure lol. Hes also likes to get rough which i really love. My only problem with him is that hes so young. Like i know hes faithful to me. But as a young guy i know he wants to go off and be with a bunch of girls. He even broke up with me for almost three months and went out and partied. And idk how many other girls he was with. Guy 2: Guy 2 is 21. And i met him during those three months when my boyfriend left me. I told him from the start i was in a relationship and i didn't want to date him. I mean i cried myself to sleep everynight over guy 1. Like if i wasn't around people i was crying my eyes out missing him. But guy 2 is really nice. Guy 1 is all manly and stuff. But guy 2 is really sweet. And he likes to just talk to me. And guy 1 talks but hes a man of few words. Guy 2 talks just as much as i do. I ended up sleeping with guy 2 once. Which was a mistake. It wasn't good at all. And i ended up bursting into tears as soon as he finished because i was thinking of guy 1. But everyone says that guy 2 is probably a better choice. He has told me he was in love with me. And i really like him but idk if i can say i'm in love with him. Guy 1 has asked for me to go back with him. But idk if i can say yes because i don't want to be hurt. But i miss him so much. I just want him to hold me again. We were engaged but he obviously ended that when he left. Who should i choose?
Cracker Jack Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Sounds like you shouldn't choose either. I don't see how you'll be happy either way. You'll always be worried about the first guy cheating because he's young, and if you're with the other guy, you'll always be thinking about the first guy. Sounds like a disaster. But if an answer is needed, I'll say that you shouldn't choose guy #2, because it's very clear that you're not as into him as you are with the other guy.
eatNrM Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Sounds like you shouldn't choose either. I don't see how you'll be happy either way. You'll always be worried about the first guy cheating because he's young, and if you're with the other guy, you'll always be thinking about the first guy. Sounds like a disaster. But if an answer is needed, I'll say that you shouldn't choose guy #2, because it's very clear that you're not as into him as you are with the other guy. C.J has it right. Plus this might result in less of a disappointment.
Author PrissyCilla Posted October 3, 2011 Author Posted October 3, 2011 I'm sure that guy 1 won't cheat on me. He promised he would never do that to me. I am just scared he will regret being with me instead of going clubbing with his friends and being a player. I mean thats what all his friends do and i think its what he wants to do too.
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