mr h Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Need some help, i had an affair with a long time friend of mine who is also married. The affair lasted about 3 months then we stopped it, we continued to texted each other but nothing of real substance sometimes maybe a little flirty. I run into my affair partner every now and then at the store or park some days she is nice to be some days she looks as if she wants to kill me. During the affair she became friends with my wife, i believe it was a phony friendship with her she just was using her as a go between to get to me. As of late she has not contact my wife at all and when the 2 of us saw her the other day she was down right rude to her. When we stopped the affair we still wanted to be friends im not sure if that is possible or not? She will call or text me for a few days in a row then stop for 2 weeks or so is this normal is she just being nice or is she breaking my chops? We have gone out a couple of times since stopping and the 1 time we went out she was sorta being touchy feely with me and then the next day she texted that it was nice to see me. Then to other day she sends me a text saying how she has no underwear on and that i do not look good even though people have told me i look fine. Is she playing games with me, is she looking to start things up again? Please help!!!
nofool4u Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 When we stopped the affair we still wanted to be friends im not sure if that is possible or not? regardless of her current behavior, it is unacceptable to be "friends" with a woman you had an affair with. She will call or text me for a few days in a row then stop for 2 weeks or so is this normal is she just being nice or is she breaking my chops? who cares? you need to be focusing on your wife, not whether your affair partner is still in to you or not. We have gone out a couple of times since stopping unacceptable. its clear you will continue to disrespect your wife. so how about setting her free? and the 1 time we went out she was sorta being touchy feely with me and then the next day she texted that it was nice to see me. Then to other day she sends me a text saying how she has no underwear on and that i do not look good even though people have told me i look fine. Is she playing games with me, is she looking to start things up again? Please help!!! once again, wrong questions. who cares if she is playing games with you. if you aren't going to focus on your marriage and wife, then get a divorce or post this in the other M/W forum where this kind of behavior is condoned.
Lucky_One Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 I don't know if it is going to start again. What I DO know is that it won't start again unless you want it to. Do you want it to start again?
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