Mar1neOne Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 First, let me say that it is very hard for me to go NC. I was married to this woman for 12 years, and we have 4 kids that live with me. She left me last year for another man and stupid me eventually let her back. She just left me again a couple of weeks ago, but she still wants me there to be her emotional support and to be her friend.. I cannot do this, because it hurts too much. She likes to text me and talk on the phone even though she left us again, but I am always put on the back-burner when she is talking with someone new. And, she seems to like that I know when she it talking with them. Oh yeah, she is bi-polar. Here are the texts she sent today.... "What did I do?" "Are you just not talking to me anymore and not ever telling me?" Hello!!! Let me tell you what you did. You left us again and you are off with other guys. You only want to be my friend or lover when it makes you happy!! **** YOU!!! It takes all my strength not to text her back, but i am not going to because I am not giving her the satisfaction.
Chi townD Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Silence speaks volumes my friend. Be prepared; she's gonna start sending some VERY nasty e-mails, texts and voicemails...don't respond, post here instead. She's only trying to get a rise out of you so that you will respond. Nothing more.
Author Mar1neOne Posted October 3, 2011 Author Posted October 3, 2011 Silence speaks volumes my friend. Be prepared; she's gonna start sending some VERY nasty e-mails, texts and voicemails...don't respond, post here instead. She's only trying to get a rise out of you so that you will respond. Nothing more. I know and the woman knows all of my buttons... I think I am prepared not to answer this time though.
Chi townD Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Like I said, post here instead of responding to her. Vent here! We can take it! Let us have it!
Author Mar1neOne Posted October 3, 2011 Author Posted October 3, 2011 Like I said, post here instead of responding to her. Vent here! We can take it! Let us have it! Thanks!! I really appreciate the support.
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