Bsham Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Yes, it really is dam. I didn't want her to as I met this nice new girl I'm dating who I like a lot. She dumped me after 1.5 years (I didn't give her enough attention, she was really nice to me so it is my fault I admit). I've been a month with NC and I now get a "how are you" message. I just said ask my mate lol which annoyed her no end haha. Then she text back all moody saying I'm asking you and it got a bit heated. Anyway after a few messages saying I'm happy etc blah blah I ended it with this: "look I thank you for contacting me it was nice. But now I'm not in the same place and not in love anymore I want to keep it that way for now. Maybe say hello again in the future. You're a cool girl x" I do hate it when this happens. She never mentioned about trying again though, neither did I. She jsut said thought we were friends. Well I did tell her I didn't want friendship...
Dark Phoenix Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 She never mentioned about trying again though, neither did I. She jsut said thought we were friends. Well I did tell her I didn't want friendship... You told her you didn't want friendship yet you proceeded to have a short conversation with her? sorry but I believe your actions are telling her otherwise...
69ways Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 NC is a very difficult thing , I lasted 40 days before I gave in to her call. Huge mistake, it mess me up big time. Dumpers come in contact with us because of insecurity or ego. I actually believe that the majority , use the <<how are you>> technic , subconsciously, to forget us slowly but steady. Have you forgotten how it feels to wonder what she does or where she is? Why give her the right to know whenever she wants of where's about your are? Ignore her my friend, only good can come out of this and nothing else.
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