headsashed Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Well im on my 2nd day of NC and feeling strong,its part 3 because everytime ive gone NC she has txted or rang and ive fell and replied. My ex did txt 3 times and call once yesterday but i never responded,im also staying off the booze for a little while too so i wont be sending anymore drunken/angry txts. The only thing thats bothering me is deepdown im wanting her to contact me even though i wont reply,why am i feeling like that? because its confusing me. I also had a dream about her last night and when i woke this morning it hit me pretty hard but ive still stuck to NC.
Mack05 Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 The only thing thats bothering me is deepdown im wanting her to contact me even though i wont reply,why am i feeling like that? because its confusing me. I went through the same thing. For about a month I stared at my mobile phone hoping she would contact me, even though I knew I wouldn't reply. Until afterawhile I just stopped caring. By the time my birthday came round I hoped she wouldn't text and she didn't...You are emotionally attached to her. If I am being honest you both come across as two messed up individuals. Therefore your relationship was a toxic. A toxic relationship involves two emotionally messed up people, looking for someone to fill the emotional gap, but neither person is unable to do so. This girl, I am thinking is slightly nuts. Who calls and texts like this when they make it clear they don't want to be in a relationship? I don't know what to say to you. You seem determined to self destruct. You have great advice on all the threads but people are wasting their time. You are simply not listening to what is being said to you. Order the book How to break your addiction to a person. I know I have said this to you before. In one ear, out the next with you headsashed..
geegirl Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Right now, you're holding on to false hope because she is still hanging around. You feel that way because for as long as she engages, you know she is still "interested" and it's not truly over. It feeding your hope and denial. Once she stops contacting you, the fear of the finality of it all will dawn on you, you will realize that it is over and that she is gone and that is when your grieving and healing really begins.
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