For the guys- how long should a girl wait?

[Country_Girl]

For any guys seeking a long term relationship- what is the ideal waiting period for sex- to make you think she's long term potential?

 

I have to admit, I met this guy, we went on 1 date (drinks), nothing happened we just hugged at the end of the night. Not gonna lie, I find him really really attractive- but I'm not looking for a "hook up" and I really want this to go somewhere. We have another date planned for Tuesday, I expect we might kiss by then- nothing more.

 

I could easily see myself jumping into bed with him, just because I find him so attractive. I haven't felt this way about a guy in a long time, I don't want him to think it's a regular thing with me. I don't want to make him wait nor seem like a tease either...how long should I wait before sex gets the green light- without it looking like I am easy?

[Voldar]

I haven't dated a whole lot, but if I did date and was expecting long term, if all was going well I'd say a month and a half or so. So if you are going on dates and it's going good and you're really started to hit it off and it's going smooth and you've thought about.

 

I guess it's the whole I'd wait until we were exclusive thing, that way I know the girl isn't just looking for sex with me then moving on.

[musemaj11]

I expect a woman to put out within the first four dates.

[Emilia]

When you feel comfortable. This is about you as well as much about the guy and sexual compatibility is just as important as any other kind.

[oaks]

For any guys seeking a long term relationship- what is the ideal waiting period for sex- to make you think she's long term potential?

 

Ideally after we've talked about relationships (a "what are you looking for?" conversation) and perhaps even talked about sex. After we've both made it clear that we aren't dating anyone else. Hopefully when we're already in a relationship, or close to one.