Kacie Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 We broke up two months ago, he broke up with me cause he had originally planned to go to Europe, obviously didn't happen. After we broke up he cried a lot so hes told friends, he started to do drugs, smoke cigarettes, and drink and party A LOT, he also ended up getting fired. He met a girl and dated her 2 weeks after our break up, but he hid it from me and told me she's "just a friend". Liar. When I found out I pulled NC and a few days later they broke up, and a week and one day after me pulling NC he messaged me. He had gotten all jealous and started asking me if I had moved on, heard I hooked up with a guy, and that I was seeing someone, which some he just made up to get a rise out of me, why would he do that? I was stupid and messaged him back before I was totally over the break. I suggested we try to get back together and he agreed at first but the more I talked about it the further I pushed him away. I realized once again I had to pull NC so I asked for him to see me and talk, he avoided me so I showed up on his porch and talked to him in person. I told him he doesn't know me and I've change a lot, which I have, I told him how I listened to him and changed that one negative aspect he had always disliked about me, I told him what I thought was his problems and he told me " well It took you a year to listen to me, so give me a year" I told him I'm not waiting for him and I have to start moving on. He told me we'd talk again and I told him only if he changed but he told me we would talk again. I hugged him bye and told him to take care of himself. We dated for over a year, told me I was the best thing to ever happen to him, since the break all his friends have told me it's a shame he broke up with me because they agree I am the best thing to ever happen to him. We had a very strong relationship, best friends and spent a lot of time together. I was also his longest relationship. Also a few days before the break he stated he would never find better then me and this is the first relationship he has ever felt so loved in. Do you believe he could come back? Will he realize his mistake? I have changed my outlook on life and I know exactly how to act if he returns, any more suggestions would be great! I've done a lot of growing and I believe I am a better person. I'm even confident in who I am, which I have never been before. Would changing my outer appearance help in getting him back? I'm not only doing this to get him back, more so for myself and to gain even more confidence. My appearance had changed a lot when we first started dating, I had long black hair and now I have shoulder length brown hair. I plan on getting hair extensions and going back to my black hair. I also have begun working out again. Could these aspects help me in anyway also? I appreciate any responses, out looks on my situation, and suggestions about anything would be much appreciated.
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