quietGuy13 Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Hey Guys I've been going out with a girl. just kind of friendly dates. Which Is totally fine with me and I feel happy. We had a great date/time together did stuff together, and had lunch etc and we planned another date. This girl may not turn into GF but i guess it's ok. I'm so happy i have someone that enjoys my time. Many people here say how it's bad to be Friendzoned. I may be in the process of being Friendzoned , but there's a reason. Shee's not from here. She knows she will leave in some time. So i personally i dont think it's such a bad thing to have wonderful dates with some girl that's nice to you even if there's no possiblity of her being a GF. As long as we have good times, good memories.
Art_Critic Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 If you are going out with your friend they aren't dates.. you are just going to dinner with a friend.. A date has a different outlook planned.. Your friend isn't planning on kissing you or looking at you romantically.. A date on the other hand will... There have been people that have come out of the friendzone and gotten the girl but it is a painful road wrought with failure.
AHardDaysNight Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 I asked the question "is it a date if we don't call it a date?" on another relationship forum, and got many different answers. The main thing that makes it a date is if she kisses you at the end. But not every date ends with a kiss? So was it a date, or not? By all standards, I've either been dating since I was in my early teens, or I haven't been on a single date. It all depends on how other people view it. Irregardless, I feel it's bad to criticize the OP, who (as I've mentioned before) has some difficulties.
TooAccepting32 Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Hey, I think that's a very mature way of looking at it. YES, go out, enjoy each other's time. Enjoy the level of attraction and interest you have in each other for what it is. It's very healthy to get the opposite sex interaction, experience flirting, and understanding that not everything has to be directed toward the bedroom or something serious. It's very enjoyable to hang around someone who is attractive and fun whether it's a date or not a date.
Johnny85 Posted October 3, 2011 Posted October 3, 2011 Hey, I think that's a very mature way of looking at it. YES, go out, enjoy each other's time. Enjoy the level of attraction and interest you have in each other for what it is. It's very healthy to get the opposite sex interaction, experience flirting, and understanding that not everything has to be directed toward the bedroom or something serious. It's very enjoyable to hang around someone who is attractive and fun whether it's a date or not a date. I agree! It is so nice just to be hanging out with a girl who I am having fun with, too, so I completely understand where quietguy is coming from. And if something happens, then that is great, but if it doesn't, it wasn't meant to be.
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