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coming on strong....nerves, perhaps?


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i had a sort of date with a guy i was friends with ages ago tonight. we always got on well and had a laugh and tonight was the same. apart from.....

 

he came on a little strong. like i know he was trying to be nice because he knows ive been screwed around by guys in the past but he was a little overboard with the flattery and "i like you soooo much youre amazing" deal. i think he mightve thrown a few fibs into the conversation too. he was quite forward with the touchy-feely kinda deal. then he wanted to make plans to catch up in 2 days time which i think is a little overboard considering weve also made plans for next saturday anyway. i have a feeling hes on the rebound as he split up with a long term girlfriend a few months ago.

 

anyway, i quite like him. but at the same time im kind of put off. do you think i should keep in touch and see how it goes? was it maybe just nerves making him act a bit weird? what would you do?

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He over did it with the "I quite like you, your so amazing" stuff. Other than that, you are attracted to him.

 

The conundrum is, if he had just a bit more experience with women, he would have probably not over done it with the "I like you" stuff. But then again, the guys who are good are guys like me...I'd sleep with you and then break your heart.

 

This guy is obviously not a player, so he's probably authentic. But you also find yourself not all that into him, otherwise, you wouldn't have posted this.

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