amythan Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 Hi, I posted in the past about the guy I was in love with. We were fwb during more than one year and after more fights and drama that it was needed we stopped talking to each other one month ago. I was heartbroken and it toke me a while to accept that he does not want me in his life. I tried to move on and i went out more than i should but it helped me to realize that there are other people out there. So last friday i went to a party and i met this guy. He is cute and the kind of person I like. But we drank way too much and we slept together. Big mistake. I felt bad because suddenly i though about the other guy, how good it was to sleep with him, because it was not just sex. Anyway he is gone so ... no point in thinking about him anymore. And i kind of like the new guy. I would like to see him again but i cannot contact him (but he is a friend of my friends). Before sleeping together he said that we can do things together after work (we live close to each other) but he didn't ask for my number. Is this a case of a pure ONS ? We are going to see each other again so there is no rush ... but i feel i miss the opportunity sleeping together being drunk .. Is this a deal breaker for you guys ?
january2011 Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 I think it's too early to tell what could be going on. Best just to put it behind you for now until you get a chance to speak to him again. Alternatively, you could always get his contact details via your friends and make the first move.
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