hersparklingeyes Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 (edited) The wife was spending way to much money,I took the cards away and that is when everything went real bad. My son took it personal, he started getting into trouble, would not do anything he was told (very spoiled) he quit school and got himself involved with drugs. My wife blamed me. She stopped wearing her wedding ring and started changing her appearance. She started getting involved with this one younger guy, she became very distant. When i would ask what was going on different occasions she would say things like go get a lawyer, and i didn't think you loved me anymore, that this guy was once in a lifetime chance, etc, etc. She always insisted nothing happened. It got me very worried and i told her that. She was checking everybody out by this time, i didn't even want to be around her. One day she came home late from work and she had this trememdous sparkle in her eyes, i just looked at her for about 10 seconds, i started to say where did you just come from and at the same time she stuck her tongue out at me, then she yelled and said I just came from work. I believe she cheated. Here is my dilemma, we live close to a college and she may have been stuck at the crosswalk where the football players crossed. Could she just have been so aroused that she stuck her tongue out to make me jealous or make me mad because i had been avoiding her. I did find new sexy underwear in her drawer, she said that the underwear were for me, but i never saw them on her. she still insists nothing happened to this day. It has tore me inside, any thoughts Edited October 2, 2011 by hersparklingeyes misleading title
oldshirt Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 I'm not really sure it matters if she has actually done the physical deed or not at this point. What matters is that you two are disengaging and losing your connection day by day. At this rate you two will be split up in a matter of time regardless of whether she has actually done it yet or not. And if she hasn't at this point, it is just a matter of time before she does.....and probably just a matter of time before you do as well. Take the time and energy you are putting into worrying about whether she has smoked some other dude's pole and put that time and energy in to counseling or trying to reconnect.
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