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He Texted on NC, what now!!!!!


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Hello i have never posted before but i do read stuff on there....

 

Don't want to bore u with all details but i decided to go NC with my ex and on day 7 he texted me all the text said was "HI"

 

Now that text was at 1am this morning and i have not replied and i don't no what to do

 

i love my ex and want to to get back together so do i still ignore?

 

what is my best next move ?:eek::eek::eek:

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This is just a "check up" message, which means nothing more than "I miss you sort of, but not enough to talk to you". Ignore it right away and hold out for a few more attempts. If for any reason you fall into this trap he will only talk or text long enough to get you to chase him, then he will hang you out to dry. Wait about a month to build up suspence, until he starts to get upset, then text him with something like sweet and non compliant "hope you're doing as good as I am".

Relax you'll do fine.

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