Patricia09 Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 So here I am 2 years later in a relationship for last year and half in another country. I live with him and his dog now and even though my issues from the past still haunt me. I am leaving my career to go to another country with him for 6 weeks and his ex who when we were friends he told me was the only girl he got turned on with we are going to meet there. Stupidly, and as a girl I have been on her FB and seen now she is a female body builder...I also know a lot more than I should about there relationship. I dont know how to handle going on a 6 week trip with the man i love and apprantly im the love of his life and having to meet her. PS I know that he never has felt more attracted to anyone in his life and i dont feel he does the same with me. Help because I dont want to be heartbroken again and saying to him I dont want to see her wont help because he is too freaked out from a last girlfriend who woulnd not allow him to do anything. Please help you guys. PS - when they first met 4 years ago - the last time he was there he saidit was the most amazingly sexual attraction he has ever had (he told me this as a friend before we got together). X
ascendotum Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 Did you leave your country to move back to his country or are you about to go on a 6wk holiday to another country with him and his ex GF? To me it sounds like both, so I assume he is still good friends with his ex. Its a bit strange to go on a holiday with a current GF and his last GF. I assume the ex will also bring along her new BF. If that's not the case, and its him, you & her, then I don't think you would be out of order to tell him you don't want to be holidaying with his ex. It would be great if every relationship topped all the ones that came before it in regards to sexual attraction but it doesn't quite work out that way for everyone. Does your attraction for this guy top all the other guys you've slept with. You have been with this guy for 18mths, so surely you would have noticed if he was just treading water with you. You got what he wants, even if you don't have a gym tight bod. The amazing sexual attraction didn't help her stay with him did it. (though she's still on the scene)
Author Patricia09 Posted October 2, 2011 Author Posted October 2, 2011 Thanks for the reply it means loads. The relationship the had I knew about and unfortunately now I know about it from being nosey. I dont know, I still wonder about guys, when it comes to our sex life its maybe once a week and i expect more esp knowing the crap that I have seen from before...ach life is always complicated. You know what, I would rather spend 6 weeks with my family than be brought to another country to be introduced to to an ex with sparks still obv flying.
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