cantforget Posted May 14, 2004 Posted May 14, 2004 "If you love somone set them free...." blah blah. I am interested to hear any stories where this theory may have worked. I am currently trialing it and am trying to stay strong and not call (3 days now). Is this realistic or are these just words we tell losers in love?
LILUIL Posted May 14, 2004 Posted May 14, 2004 it goes, the thing that you want the most is the thing that you should let go, to see if it comes back to you. yes, i use that verse all the time and i have found it to work...... you should let go and not expect the person to come back..... wait, carry on with life and if the person comes back by themself and not because of your pestering, then you know they have you in their hearts as well. if you want a testimony, my ex and me broke off on very bad terms, he was getting arranged married to someone else and i wanted so much to cling on to him and not let him go. but i did let him go. many many months has passed, more than a year and now even though i have moved on, he contacted me recently coz things are not all blossoms with the arranged girl and he realised i was the one he loved all along.... bla bla bla about he will try to make his parents accept me and all but i am happy without him. hope that answers your question. end of the day, realise that holding on to the one you love with your toughest grip does not guarantee you being able to keep their love any longer. they make their own decisions we can 'influence' but not force a decision on another human being. maybe free will comes with the 'opportunity' to make many wrongs decisions before finally making the right one, so when we finally make the right decisions, we will appreciate that special someone in our lives more. take care.....
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