scoopy Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 hey all here is my complicated situation I’ve been dating this guy for nearly 10 months we had the "all fight" relationship he was just never satisfied and in his opinion i never pay attention to him or love him i did all i could consist of assuring him every single day and trying to change things the way he likes till i get tried of never succession and the fact that in the end there is something from me! that ruins everything this relationship for me was ALL CRY AND all feeling of failure because he never believed he might be wrong too i kept telling him i feel i'm not enough it continued till i got tried and said i will leave you we first fight over his belief that i'm weak and i'm not willing to try my best for this relation then when i left he said he can't do it without me and he will make everything alright so get back together but it didn't last and after a week the new problem occurred: you don't even love me and you wanted to leave, you are here only because i insist! my unhappiness is nothing for you.. blah blah then he left! and i said ok boy lets cut this crap and live out life for days he tried to get back he told me he loves me and he talked about every good things in our relation i wasn't gonna come back the yesterday he called cried and beg me to listen to him he said he thought and tough about everything and our very single problems and now he realizes that 99% was his fault he’s saying everything will change he says he believe it was all his fault and now that he find out about that he is willing to do his best to change everything he wants me to forget all the past and start relation as if he is someone new he’s now saying all the things he should’ve a while back i'm confused!! i kinda can't believe him i can't forget past it's been like 10 months and he had never confess he was wrong and he always thought everything he says were alright and i have problem! now out of nowhere he comes and say all those things i was waiting to hear for long long time but he seems really sad and frustrated he keep telling me i should give him chance or he won't be able to prove it to me but now i donno if i wanna give him chance i think i wanna be alone no relation no commitment i don't know what to do i afraid to say yes and no both should i give another chance or people won't change and maybe 3 months later we'll be same here! it's tough choice help me out pleaaseeeee
leoc1973 Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 It sounds like this guy is really needy. Was he not loved enough as a child? I guess if you really love him and he never really did anything hurtful to you other than want to be loved then it can't hurt to give him another chance I mean what do you have to lose a couple more weeks of your life? Just make sure he doesn't poke holes in his condoms or something. lol
Author scoopy Posted October 2, 2011 Author Posted October 2, 2011 i really don't know what to do my heart says i love him but my brain gives me 100 reasons its not enough and he doesn't have anything more to offer i keep thinking it would be a better relation but not a perfect one since it was ruined before and he has no future to count on and i don't know if he will reach there in 2 3 years later i don't know which i should listen to
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