eleanorhurting Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 wow guys its already october! NC day 3! Lets keep hanging in there!
Buttercup84 Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 Good on you ! Been almost three weeks for me . X
mike588 Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 wow guys its already october! NC day 3! Lets keep hanging in there! Keep up the good work, soon you will be adding a 0 after the 3 days of N.C. I'm around day 40 now and it feels good!
shortee143 Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 Yay! Every day helps/counts. Ex is in my life due to tons of the same friends, but I am as NC as I can go...almost 3 months that I havent rly said a word to him when we are out together (with our friends) and I didnt send him a happy birthday text! haha..my version of NC is a bit skewed, but I'll take it ! Anyone struggling with it- I can tell you there comes a time where you dont even want to txt/call....you miss them, but the desire to reach out dulls!
Author eleanorhurting Posted October 1, 2011 Author Posted October 1, 2011 I almost texted him today! Almost!! I was strong and I didnt but boy is this hard!!! Im thinking of getting back on facebook. I have been out for a long time. I erased him but we have so many mutual friends he's still there. Maybe if I block him?
mike588 Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 I almost texted him today! Almost!! I was strong and I didnt but boy is this hard!!! Im thinking of getting back on facebook. I have been out for a long time. I erased him but we have so many mutual friends he's still there. Maybe if I block him? Good job, don't do it! Yes block him on Facebook.
Author eleanorhurting Posted October 1, 2011 Author Posted October 1, 2011 I dont know if I should open a new facebook or reactivate the old one. It could be a new beginning since i havent been much of a fb user for a while and have deactvated adn reactivated my old account because i feel it brings me baggage.
Author eleanorhurting Posted October 1, 2011 Author Posted October 1, 2011 oh my God he just chatted me on skype asking me if I stayed this weekend (we're both doing our medicine rotations 2 hours away from home). "are you here or did you go home" strength strength strength strength
Author eleanorhurting Posted October 1, 2011 Author Posted October 1, 2011 nope! I shouldn't right? Why would he be asking? Either to keep tabs on me or because he wants to see me (but not to get together or anything) The last conversation i had with him on skype he said: "I think you're amazing but i just dont think we are meant to be together... at least not for now" huge breadcrumb right? I need to start thinking of my own sanity
mike588 Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 nope! I shouldn't right? Why would he be asking? Either to keep tabs on me or because he wants to see me (but not to get together or anything) The last conversation i had with him on skype he said: "I think you're amazing but i just dont think we are meant to be together... at least not for now" huge breadcrumb right? I need to start thinking of my own sanity Yes your right, DO NOT respond! He tells you I don't think we are meant to be together.. at least now. Move on,, he's hoping you will wait around for him,, don't do that either.
Author eleanorhurting Posted October 2, 2011 Author Posted October 2, 2011 I'm finally starting to think that he just liked to keep me around for the sex and the ego boost. I mean why else would you ask where i am? with no further intention?
BLuvv Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 I'm finally starting to think that he just liked to keep me around for the sex and the ego boost. I mean why else would you ask where i am? with no further intention? I think my ex was the same way. Get all the "benefits" of a relationship without the commitment. You deserve much better!
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