snikerbarz Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 Why do exe's try so hard to get a reaction from us? We've respected their decision and are moving on with our lives but they can't JUST LEAVE US ALONE... We don't want to talk... we really don't even want to see you, hear you, smell you, or know about your life. Why can't these people just take a hint and ignore us like we ignore them.
TheDovic Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 I really dont know. my ex dumped me but constantly contacts me. I honestly have no idea why
headsashed Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 same here,breadcrumbs and all that probably,ive not heard anything today but its only 12:17pm lol,sometimes its so nice to have this peace and quiet
headsashed Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 lol mike,my ex just txt..it read " i take it ur just ignoring me.but fu*k it,u said you dont want to talk to me no more so i wont" yawn!
Kageytn Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 Mine told me last night he was eating alone at a nightclub. I've decided: 1. He thinks I'm an idiot. The man can not be alone. Serial dater. 2. He wanted me to feel sorry for him. Perhaps he thought I'd offer to go with him 3. He wanted to make me jealous 4. I spend too much time thinking of his motivations My ex keeps contacting me because he is losing control of me. He also could care less about my feelings. I am still not sure why I keep engaging. Low self esteem and habit.
momto3boys Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 my last conversation with my ex was him telling me to leave HIM a lone, dont call him, dont email him, just leave him a lone. Told me to get a life, called me every name in the book, told me to go have sex with someone else so maybe itd get over him and leave him a lone. I have been doing NC for almost a week now and he has already called multiple times. We do have a son together, bout to have another, but he can talk for himself. They talked and i hung up the phone right after and he called right back and i did not answer. I have nothing to say to him. He emailed me saying he didnt understand why i couldnt answer, he had to ask me something. It's annoying. You'd think after all he said to me, he'd stick to NC unless it was to talk to our son but no. I dont know why they contact after they leave and tell us to leave them a lone, lol.
headsashed Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 ive told my ex 3 times in past 2 weeks to leave me alone,but not once has she listened,i told her other night i wont ever talk to her again,yet shes sent 3 txts since,think shes trying to call my bluff now by saying she wont talk to me no more cos i said i wont talk to her again lol.
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