shoulditrust Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 Hi all, This have been a very difficult one month for me. I hope that is someone that can help me. Firstly, my gf said that she wants to cool down for a week because she said she had a crash/good feeling on some korean guy that she knew online and she had no feeling for me. When i asked her if she still love me, she says dont know. So i asked her, after her saying all this, does she wants me to be the person to initiate the break up, she kept quiet and said lets cool down for a period. I actually went through our problem step by step. 1) it started when she lost trust and was disspointed in me as i overspend my money (booked a hotel for us) as i just got a new job, and secondly she said i made her feel guilty on why does she not want to have sex with me. 2) after above incident, she says she loss her feeling for me becuz of this (utterly dissappointed, as she claimed) 3) after 2), she have been talking with the korean guy online, and felt that they can click, so she had a crash/good feeling. BUt she herself said that this feeling should go away fast. What should I do? Fyi, my gf is crazy about Korea and their culture. She did say she might find it interesting to have a korean bf, zzzz. What i really cant take it is that how can she just suddenly loss feelings for me when before the above incident (booking of hotel, overspend, and guilt)like just 3 or 4 days ago. we were so in love, and she had that urge to have sex with me like just 3 or 4 days ago. And suddenly after 3 or 4 days later, the mistake happened then she has a sudden loss of feelings, then suddenly have a crash on the korean guy?!!! I acutally have been admitting my mistake to her, i just hope that she can have the trust and faith in me again. And i told her i will bring her to places that we went, how we fall in love. How can it be possible she can have a crash on someone that she dont understand? Just because hes a korean and they happen to click on msn??? what went wrong? ive been thinking now, have she cheated on me even before telling me this? was she really honest? was this the real reason? or is it real that feelings for someone can just change?
Imageiko Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 It can change just that quick. To me it seems like it's over and I'm not even sure it's because of the hotel thing like you said. Do you really want to get back with somebody who openly is online flirting with other guys anyway?
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