Buttercup84 Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 After I moved out I did some things I now regret . My ex asked if I could pay my share of the rent that week , half of the water and electricity bill . I did . I even arranged for a food delivery as I felt sorry for him , amongst the food were some items for tummy upset and migraine as he gets them often . I didn't want him to struggle . Last birthday (his ) I couldn't afford to buy him anything nice and he was upset . So after he dumped me I debt him a camping set . He did buy me nice gifts while we were together .he was happy but said he felt bad . He asked me to pay $100 towards our next bill . I said I'd pay the whole thing $333 . Anyway I just put $100 towards it , by bpay . I was so stupid . I mean , he dumped me , he spoke badly about me to his friends and got onto a dating site before we broke up . I feel like he was acting all nice so I would pay . Was I wrong for paying , despite me having lived there too ? I'm not paying the rest as I said , he is a project manager at a big bank , I'm a Childcare worker . He can afford it , he should have thought of it sooner . I did all those things to win him back , I felt sorry for him . He said I should use money for myself and spoil myself . Since he was planning on dumping me , he could have saved money . I can't believe I sent him food twice . I'm so stupid
mike588 Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 You know my story. I so regret buying her things and helping her fix her car, fixing up her house at my expense etc. What was I thinking when I got so very little back. Red flags everywhere but I chose to ignore them. Dumb, Dumb, Dumb!!
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