momto3boys Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 Ive written a million times on this board, sorry, haha. My husband wants a divorce, i moved 6 hours away. He was so mean to me since telling me he doesnt wanna be with me, has called me every name in the book and has made me look like a big piece of crap to everyone he knows even though i havent done as many bad things as he does to me. Most of the time if im mean to him its because hes been mean to me. We do have a child together and we both agreed he can talk to our son (our son is almost 3 so he can communicate himself) and my ex is 6 hours away so he doesnt get visitation very often, but we both agreed we'd communicate through email. (after he called me every name in the book and told me to leave him the hell alone and how much my voice pissed him off, etc). So i nicely said fine to be civil for our son we would just communicate if need be through email. So i dont contact him at all for one day and then he contacts me to talk to our son, he talks to our son for 2 seconds and then we hung up. Then later that night I emailed him to ask him when he;'d be sending his child support check and he said sometime in oct, then said he was sorry for being a jerk and didnt want to have no contact. I responded by giving him my new address and that was it. I said nothing about the no contact. Then another day goes by with no contact at all and then today he calls 6 times. I know he was calling for our son. A few times i did not answer because our son was sleeping and because i was about to leave to enroll my oldest son in to his new school since i just moved back home. I tried to call him back and he did not answer. He called back and i gave the phone to my son and they talked for a good 5-10 mins and then my son said "ok i love you daddy, bye" and then i hung the phone up. i did not say one word to him, like i said my son can communicate himself. So when he said goodbye i hung it up. Well he called right back after i hung up, and i did not answer. I dont have anything to say to him and honestly i need a week or so to cool off and emotionally mend after some of the horrible stuff he has said and done to me. Honestly he has made me feel so worthless and like an inch big, honestly i cant even bring myself to talk to him because of the stuff he has said and done to me. My heart is destroyed, theres so much resentment. I just dont wanna talk to him til i can get it together. What could he possibly want to talk about?
JaneDoe35 Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 I would suggest emailing him and explaining that you are not up for talking on the phone right now. Ask him to contact you regarding anything important via email. I have no idea what he may want to discuss. Good luck....
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