How can I fix it???

[Aiyana25]

Hi

wondering if anyone has advice.

Have been married to my husband for 4 years, we have a 3 year old.

2 years ago my husband lost his job and while I took on a 30 hour a week job,which isnt my chosen profession or particularly well paid,i do it as its needed, I feel he has no appreciation sometimes.

I am expected to do pretty much everthing around the house, except he organises paperwork for bills etc, its getting me down lately and I fear and I am starting to get a bit resentful.

I feel where I do all I can he maybe isnt doing his quota.

If we talk theres a contant battle and I am not interested in arguing in front of my child so I back down. just to keep the peace.

 

I Really dont know what to do, I know if he could find work he would be there, but for the moment is asking for a little help too much?

I am snappy and irritated and really not that great to be around lately I know that to be true, but I am tired and worn out and overall just a bit fed up.

I am grateful for the good times, there just isnt enough lately and I think I am getting more stressed by the day.

How can I fix it and try word in a way thet wont blow up???

thanks to anyone who read this very long rant!!