Buttercup84 Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 My ex didn't treat me that well most of the time ( he treated me well too , so I focused on that instead. When he was mean to me , swore at me and ignored me when I was sick , I really wish I had the guts to move out . I still would have been depressed but shown him that he can't treat me like that . Too late now .
Glove_slap Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 Sounds like he saved you the trouble of having to tell him all that.
The_Good_Me Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 I've never wished I'd of dumped her in the 5 months since my break up and I never wanted to dump her during the 10 year relationship. She did some things that hurt me, she had some bad traits, we had our fair share of arguments, I always felt I loved her more, I sometimes had doubts that she had any feelings for me at all (my own insecurity) and things happened that tested our strength as a couple. We got through so much together and in my mind there was nothing that we couldn't overcome. If I had dumped her then I would have given up on us and on her. Instead, it was her that gave up on me & us. I am proud that I stuck the relationship as far as it could go.
Unrequitedlove Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 It depends. I mostly wish that I wasnt so blind to the warning signs of my ex withdrawing from the relationship. Now that I think of it, it was so crystal clear that he wanted out. Would I have left first had I picked up on the hints sooner? I don't even know.
HappyFlower Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 If I had dumped her then I would have given up on us and on her. Instead, it was her that gave up on me & us. I am proud that I stuck the relationship as far as it could go. Although I'm gutted he finished it, I had been thinking about it for a while, wondering if I should finish it for various reasons; in the end I came to this same conclusion, I would rather be the one that knows I gave my all and didn't give up on us, rather than the one that walked away when things got hard. I know that he will never find someone who loves him as much or put as much effort in as I did. And if he wants to give up on that, then its his loss
mike588 Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 Although I'm gutted he finished it, I had been thinking about it for a while, wondering if I should finish it for various reasons; in the end I came to this same conclusion, I would rather be the one that knows I gave my all and didn't give up on us, rather than the one that walked away when things got hard. I know that he will never find someone who loves him as much or put as much effort in as I did. And if he wants to give up on that, then its his loss I know what you mean. I too gave it my all and did'nt give up, I think that makes us a better person and should walk around with our head held high. Ditto with never finding someone who loved her so much and the effort put in.
Author Buttercup84 Posted October 1, 2011 Author Posted October 1, 2011 I only felt like dumping him because of the way he treated me .I was so in love with him and tried so so hard to make it work but got nothing in return. His last girlfriend before me dumped him three times and it makes me wonder if she did it for the same reason.
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