Countryboy94 Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 I asked this girl out on facebook to go to the movies with me tomorrow night since i didnt have her phone number and hasnt been at school all week and she replied with " Icant, Im sorry!! " Should i try asking her again another day at a later time or she not interested?
grkBoy Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 It depends, do you think she's interested in you? Have you ever asked for her number? I'd probably tell you to try once more...if she rejects then move on.
Pierre Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 No. Don't ask again. If she was interested she would have given you an alternative day.
neowulf Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 Yeah, I usually draw the line at 3 times myself. That helps catch the "playing hard to get" crowd. Keep in mind that if a women is keen, she'll *always* offer an alternative to your suggestion. e.g. Me: "Hey, interested in checking out a movie on Saturday" Her: "Oh, sorry, I've got stuff on Saturday.. how about Sunday?"
The Outlaw Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 Try it one more time. If she gives you the runaround again, I'd say move on.
Pierre Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 If you ask out women you barely know there is a high chance you get a negative response. That is why you should ask women that you know because they are likely to say yes. You should scout the women and flirt with them. That will give you a good idea whether you should ask or not.
DirtyDancing Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 (edited) When I have said, "I can't, I'm sorry", that usually means that I am not interested. I agree she would have offered an alternative if she wanted to go out with you. I would say try one more time and if she declines and doesn't suggest another time, then she's probably not interested. On the other hand, I asked a guy to meet again after we had already been on a date once, asked him if he was free that next week or whenever it was. He said probably, but let's play it by ear. Didn't hear from him until that night and he asked for a raincheck. Heard back from him awhile later, then he said he wanted to see me but still didn't actually ask me out. So, I tried again later and he pulled the same card by saying I have a busy week but let's talk next week. Haven't heard from him since then, and I haven't tried again since. My point is, dating is really confusing. My situation sounds like a rejection now that I look at it. But in my experience personally, when I've said or HEARD "I can't, I'm sorry", it means exactly that. Edited October 1, 2011 by DirtyDancing
Author Countryboy94 Posted October 1, 2011 Author Posted October 1, 2011 It depends, do you think she's interested in you? Have you ever asked for her number? I'd probably tell you to try once more...if she rejects then move on. Well i think she interested she shown some signs ( Flipping hair, body contact wont pull away) stuff like that so i think ill take everyones advice and ask her again but wait till shes at school this next time to ask in person, i was going to do this but she wasnt there all week and i really wanted to do something with her this weekend.
Hot Chick Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 A response like "I can't, I'm sorry" is pretty brusque and it means "I'm not interested." Like others have said, she would have offered an other date, or been really enthusiastic in saying "Oh no, I'd love to, but I have plans then....I really want to go to a movie with you another time! That would be awesome!" but "I can't - I'm sorry" - ouch....sorry. Don't try again with her.
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