Timbo22 Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 My ex and I were together for 3 years. It all came to a crashing down oneday and I was absolutly devestated and blindsided. No signs nothing... We planned on so much together.and had a bond noone could touch. Monthes went by and I did all the wrong things. Pleaded, begged, this was the girl who wanted to marry me. Im 22 and she just turned 21, this all happened back in january. She started dating a new guy In june which I took hard and this august he left her. I recieved a mesage on fb stating she needs to see me rigt away. I ignore yet she still keeps it up. I finally decide to:eek: se her and she wanted to make ammends. No realitionship just friends. So for the last mont we have hung out alot. She usually inntiates it And invites me out. We have had sex a few times and have made out alot. Butshe tels me to not get attached and it means nothing even when she tells me shes very atracted to me and so are all her friemds and it makes her upset and she almosts cries when i talk about other girls. Yet she tells me all the attention she gets when she goes out she is very unique and beatiful to me and that hurts alot. Especially since she drinks alot and.parties now when she is suppose to be studyimg to get into med school. Anway to make a long story short, she thinks of me as a best friend now and always wants to hangout or drink, study ext. Just random texts to hangout. I hate the feeling of havomg the oppurtunity to hook up with alot of girls but the only 1 I want seems invisble to me. Idk y I keep doing this to myself, I just love her so much I guesS Sorry for the typing erorrs I did this from my crappy phone, and advice on what I should to or any expierences would help alot. Thanks
TheDovic Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 As you pretty much said yourself, this girl has feelings for you but she has lost attraction... pretty much because you acted like a wuss! Now the good thing is this. She is physically attracted to you because she was your girl at one stage, but this is not enough... HOWEVER you can do something about this. As I tell all nice guys on this forum, read David DeAngelo's "Attraction isn't a choice" and "Double your Dating." (You may need to download the kindle app to your phone or pc) They will tell you exactly what you are doing wrong and what you need to be doing! Don't fall any deeper into the friend zone dude or she is NEVER coming back!!!
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