Abhuman Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 I have no problem "hanging out" with a single mom but I'll never commit.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 A lot of people say you shouldn't date single moms and even single dads, do any of you feel like you could never date someone with kids? if so why? I was reading an article and it was talking about how some single moms have drama, baggage, and can be immature. heres the article: http://www.top10point5.com/2011/09/top-105-reasons-to-never-date-single.html I think anyone that says you shouldn't date a certain group of people is immature to begin with. It's one thing to not be interested in a man or women with children. It's another to complain about their "drama", "baggage" or "immaturity". Which are all pretty baseless claims. Every person on the face of this earth comes with a certain amount of baggage. If you want to date someone with none you either have to date the Bubble Boy/Girl, or a 13 year old..and even then, by 13, you probably have a little baggage. And you can't go through life without a little drama. That's really what life is. Issues come up. You solve them or you don't. I doubt that single mothers are immature if they are taking care of their children appropiately. They don't have any other choice bu to be mature if they care about their kids. I use to be against dating men with children when I was younger. That was the appropiate choice for me when I was younger. Now that I am older, I would date a man with children. I am more mature myself now and if he is an invovled loving father..why not.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 Elysian Powder, the way you speak to people and speak about women just makes me shake my head in wonder and saddness for the world you live in. The ironic thing about most of your posts is that you don't even have that much higher of an opinon of men then you do women. You live in a world where women are scum and worthless before and after age 25 and all men are capable of doing is exploiting and using women.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 What about my post was "moral"? Further, I didn't say you were sad, I said the way you see the world, is sad. And it is. You don't have a good opinon of either gender. I also think that the fact that you come to a relationships and love message board to rant about how much you don't need or want a woman facinatingly ironic.
Hot Chick Posted October 2, 2011 Posted October 2, 2011 During the Great Depression, her father forced her to quit 8th grade so she could work grueling days on the farm out in the fields in the hot, while caring for many younger brothers and sisters when she got home. She married and not only raised 3 kids, and cooked, cleaned, etc., but worked herself to the bone in a ketchup factor and then worked for years in an arsenal until she retired. She is the most loving, caring woman who would to this day give anyone she knows the shirt off her back if they wanted it. She has lived a hard life, but has been loved and has loved, and doesn't have anger toward how life has treated her. She has lost 2 children to cancer (one my mother), and yet she is still a strong rock. She is strong without the anger and hate that you have in your heart, Elysian. So stop whining and get some love in your heart, Elysian. There's time for you.
Trimmer Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 Dude and bro can be used at anytime; one is not backpedaling when applying each term on the same person. You must be old to not know this. Does it follow that you must be young? That might explain some things. You are only mocked when you care about someone's opinion Well, you're sure spending a lot of time responding to opinions you don't care about. Huh? You don't make any sense at all. A man who spends his life as a soldier has developed a deep fraternal love for his mates.A sailor who has known more sea than land had obviously formed great attachment and fraternal love with the men he's aging with, but that won't stop him from drinking and fcking a lot when he's out in a new harbor. But what would a pansy little midget like you know about the connections that are only possible between a man and his dog, and with other men? You wouldn't last a day in a real man's army. These bonds are far more lasting than any emotional connection a couple could ever have as the divorce ratings and the death of the many of the romantics that never reach the marriage stage show. Hey. Wanna meet my army-trained German Sheppard? He's pretty good at obeying commands, how would me testing the bond I have with my dog go down with you? First of all, bro, it was a joke - an off-color, inappropriate one, at your expense, that a mod would probably delete if it were flagged, but a joke. And then, bwahahahaha - are you serious? Let me get this clear: you, who are a real man, who can't be mocked because you don't care about others' opinions, you with your big, powerful, amazing dick made for fcking, and your manly bonds and deep attachments that I'll never be able to know or understand - did you just punctuate your point with an anonymous stranger on an internet message board by threatening to sic your military trained German Shepherd on me? You must be so secure in your masculinity... Yes, I am envious - indeed, I guess you're right: I'll never know your kind of manhood. (And just a warning: if you sic your internet military attack German Shepherd on me, I'll retaliate with my internet Ray-Blaster Intergalactic Stun Gun.)
cutecatch Posted October 4, 2011 Posted October 4, 2011 A lot of people say you shouldn't date single moms and even single dads, do any of you feel like you could never date someone with kids? if so why? I was reading an article and it was talking about how some single moms have drama, baggage, and can be immature. heres the article: http://www.top10point5.com/2011/09/top-105-reasons-to-never-date-single.html Agreed never date them, just **** them, since we know they are easy, and toss them aside. Save yourself the headache
colliejoanie Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 Wow! I'm a single mom. I just started dating about a year ago. I know there are men out there that steer clear of single moms, and that's their business. I have no problem with that. What is surprising is reading that single moms have been lumped into such an undesireable category. I had my daugher @ 32. i'm now 35. I'm educated, and still pretty attractive. If I ever felt of the guy I'm talking to, that he had such a narrow, prejudiced view of single mothers, I'd immediately excuse myself. Don't lump people into one category. It's completely unfair, and unintelligent. No one knows another's reasons for where they are. I don't assume that because you can't spell, and don't know what puncuation is that you're sitting in your trailer in your Nascar T-shirt drinking Keystone.
mesmerized Posted October 5, 2011 Posted October 5, 2011 (edited) What's sad is that you're a 47 old woman without a man to keep you warm and you see the men you want to date - the men you work with - dating and bedding women much younger than you; how does it feel to believe that you are a man's equal because of your degree, but the men you truly want, do not want you? Again, I am not a 15 year old girl nor am I a feminized male raised to be a woman's pup. I am a man's man. I was born to do a lot of fcking, a lot of drinking, a lot of fighting and a lot of bull fighting. Think of Hemingway minus the old age and the Nobel Prize. Oh, and funny that you mention a dog's love. I've said before, on another thread, that true love and friendship can only come from dogs. Shame you'll never meet my dog and you know how dogs can internally sense who is a decent bloke. Now that you mention it, you got me thinking about the everlasting bond men and dogs share since the first day ''our'' ancestors took the wolves in, and domesticated them. Dogs deserve the love of men; many men can't say the same about women LOL. Maybe if we create a loyalty gene to insert on women LOL. lol, the noble prize is what makes him different from an elephant or a gurilla, animals that you are proud to act like one. You SERIOUSLY can't see how dumb you are or are you just trolling?! Have you ever taken an IQ test? I'm also curious what you do for a living, it can't be anything that uses brain heavily. And you STILL have to let us know about your mother. She can't be a respectful woman if she failed to teach her child an ounce of respect. And I'm sorry that you had to grow up with no love from a warm hearted woman, it must have sucked. A lot of us did and wouldn't change the love and experience for the world. Edited October 5, 2011 by mesmerized
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