DSVET9091 Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 Ok long story short I've been divorced now almost 2 yrs, ex husband decided to have a long term affair with my so called friend than married her this summer after he knew nobody would want him as a cheater. She hates me and trust me my feelings toward her are mutual and my ex isn't allowed to talk to me. Last weekend he had the kids and he took my son to the emergency room he was sick, you would think he would tell me this through email or text but no he didn't. Today I took my son to the emergency room unaware of his trip Sunday, I have to pay all copays so now I'm stuck paying both of those bills. Last night my daughter had a hugh fight with her dad on the phone and he called me bitching me out saying I put her up to this and I was unaware of her call to her dad. Called me an unfit mother and he's gonna take me back to court for full custody and so on.... I hung up on him. Today I sent him and email and a pleasant one asking him what the Dr. had said about our son Sunday and he blocked my emails and my texts. I can't send him regular mail she doesn't work so when the mail comes she throws anything that address to him from me away. Now who's the unfit parent he has very little to do with his kids. See's them every other weekend and thats it and half of the time the kids don't want to go. They don't like his new wife because of the way he treats me and she runs me down. The kids are 14 & 12 my 18 has disowned him. What do I do in a case like this? Frustrated to the max.
stillafool Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 Unfortunately there is nothing (I think) you can do. Sorry about the mess he and your so called friend made of you and the kids life. Lucky your children are almost grown and you won't have to deal with him much longer. I would try to have as little contact as possible with him since your kids are of an age they can speak for themselves.
jnj express Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 You need to have good communication with your kids---why was it no one told you about the ER visit---I would think a kid wouldn't wanna go to the hosp twice in 2 days As to your H., and his W---ignore them---why work yourself up, over something you can't do anything about---just make sure he pays his support---and leave him alone, all you are doing is making yourself sick
Author DSVET9091 Posted September 30, 2011 Author Posted September 30, 2011 I never bother him unless it has a question about his kids. He isn't allowed to talk to me so I don't bother him like I said when I need to give him info concerning the kids.
jnj express Posted October 1, 2011 Posted October 1, 2011 Just make sure the custody rules are followed---if there are serious matters, that do need discussing, then go before the court, and get a directive forcing your H., to talk to you---if he refuses, then he is in contempt, and you can bring him up for a contempt citation
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