Jay1988 Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 My gf split up with me yesterday we were fine one day and then all of a sudden she didn't contact me. She then came round and we had the talk. All through this talk she was giving me little kisses, stroking my hair, telling me she was probably doing the worst thing of her life and at one point she even considered sleeping on it and then getting back to me. She had to physically prize herself away from me and stroked my face kissed me and came back for another hug. I text saying just to think about what she was doing and she said she was. 10 minutes later she started texting me what things as if we were still together talking about genera friends we dislike and how as just ran into them and what happened I got 4 or 5 long messages in succession. Then before she went to sleep she text again saying good night. What is going on she has suffered from depression in the past I'm wondering if this is affecting her. She has dumped me before like this and the next day has come straight back to me. Help please!
antz2411 Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 dood, you know this chick is going to give you hell for the rest of your life right? i suggest you put your damn foot down like a man should and f'n dump her before she does it to you again. RED FLAGS!!
Author Jay1988 Posted September 30, 2011 Author Posted September 30, 2011 We had some trust issues I lied about where I was coz i knew it would upset her. We got through it coz were insane about each other. Now she's having doubts again. She's still madly in love with me tho all the signs are there
TheDovic Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 Give her a day or two then dude. If she's come back once before then maybe she will this time too. If not then come on to this site and ask for some more advice, but don't do anything too drastic just yet
tehsensitive1 Posted September 30, 2011 Posted September 30, 2011 She's having trust issues and if thats the case either get it together or forget about it. Once any sense of trust is lost there will always be a little bit of doubt which is no good for any relationship. Give her time go NC for a week or so let her contact you, DO NOT contact her. She'll come back texting calling and that is when you tell her if we have no trust it's time to take a break. Personal experience from last ex, our trust issues doomed us.
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