Do people break up with those they still like/have feelings for?

[jfLip]

Yeah, I've definitely been there where things start to get taken for granted and people get very comfortable. I've felt it and I'm sure I've done it. I think those things are fixable and not dealbreakers, as long as it hasn't gone on too long. It sounds like you really care and want to make things right. But it does take both people who are willing to try. Just make sure you're not trying your hardest for someone who has one foot out the door. I've been there, done that. In that case you would be better off with someone who is equally involved and wants to make it work as much as you do (I'm sitting here thinking how much I need to follow that advice too!

 

Best of luck to you.

 

B

 

Thank you. I'm trying to really focus on myself but my curiosity kills me. We've been NC for two weeks now. Should I even try to contact her after a month or so? Or should I really be patient and wait for her?

 

BLuvv, I would greatly, greatly appreciate it if you could take a look at my coping log (http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t299701/). I feel like I'm getting better, but the more time passes by I feel like she's just forgetting about me and the chances at reconciliation diminishes.