ReadyforLife Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 I am in such a bad spot right now and I don't know what to do . My husband and I have been married for over thirteen years. We have had a rocky relationship, but have remained together. He has had several physical affairs,and I admit, I did it to him as well in retaliation....BAD PLAN! My revenge affair was almost 4 years ago. Needless to say....he has put me through he**since he found out. He filed for divorce, took the kids from me....then dropped the case and we got back together. We moved 1500 miles away.....he left me and the kids alone after 3 weeks there and went back to our home state. First, he told me to stay there, then said if I didn't bring the kids back, he would send the police to come get them. Fast forward to this past year. He absolutely will not approach me for s*x.The only time we had s*x was if and when I approached him. Well, a couple of rare times he said he would, but only right after I took a shower. Aside from that, he is not physically affectionate. He will give me a quick kiss goodbye,and that's it. When I approached him and asked him why he shows no desire forme, he said that he doesn't see me that way anymore and having s*x with me makes him feel bad, because of what I did to him. We have been to counseling, failed. I went to individual counseling. Now he says he will probably be able to enjoy s*x with me again. He JUST told me 3 weeks ago that he doesn’t see me that way anymore . At night, he goes upstairs and avoids me, almost every night. Am I crazy, or is this emotional abuse and possibly neglect? He is pleasant to me, for the most part, and makes sure we are financially stable (I work full time as well), but, he is not there for ME. I am at my breaking point, and he just doesn't get it!!!
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