ls32ssibm Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 Maybe it's because I've only had one serious girlfriend before her, (were 23), but my relationship with my ex really screwed me up. We only dated ~6 months, and I was away 2 of those months, and I was a rebound guy, but I fell head over heels for her. I know it's dumb to have felt this way. She ended up dumping me over "how I would act", which is honestly only a little grumpy when I would work double shifts, and act jealous whenever she would mention her ex. Of course, the break up was so sudden I freaked out and acted completely wrong. To make matters worse, she did it over the phone (4 weeks ago today) so the last time I physically saw her was 4 weeks ago last Monday. I had virtually no closure. She made me into the bad guy because of how I took the break up, and blocked me on Facebook. I keep asking myself if I still love her like a moron, and I can't say no. She said she didn't love me anymore the day she broke up with me. The only good thing to come out of this is I am finally pulling the trigger and moving out of state - something I wouldn't have done while dating her. Thanks for reading my vent post.
mike588 Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 Maybe it's because I've only had one serious girlfriend before her, (were 23), but my relationship with my ex really screwed me up. We only dated ~6 months, and I was away 2 of those months, and I was a rebound guy, but I fell head over heels for her. I know it's dumb to have felt this way. She ended up dumping me over "how I would act", which is honestly only a little grumpy when I would work double shifts, and act jealous whenever she would mention her ex. Of course, the break up was so sudden I freaked out and acted completely wrong. To make matters worse, she did it over the phone (4 weeks ago today) so the last time I physically saw her was 4 weeks ago last Monday. I had virtually no closure. She made me into the bad guy because of how I took the break up, and blocked me on Facebook. I keep asking myself if I still love her like a moron, and I can't say no. She said she didn't love me anymore the day she broke up with me. The only good thing to come out of this is I am finally pulling the trigger and moving out of state - something I wouldn't have done while dating her. Thanks for reading my vent post. Welcome to being a rebound guy. Did she go back to her ex b/f?
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