without Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 I'm friends with this guy...posted about it earlier too..anyway i thought he's kindda shy..I mean as not showing how he really feels.I asked him out,he said yes.but that was it.I asked him how come you don't ask much about me( personal stuff,he does ask other things though) he said he never does,cuz he's so sensitive that any answer may hurt him,I was shocked.he said he even does that this his family,too.I said OK but I'm not like that,be more comfortable with me.honestly i do think he is..but still that's more confusing. he has said that his relationships barely lasted more than some weeks and he's bad at being a boyfriend. I got a feeling that he's nice inside but maybe he needs more time and assurance that i like him.anyway I told him I missed him during the day and he said thanks but i'm not good this.at the end he ended up telling me he doesn't want a relationship and all he can be in a relationship is maybe using the girl and have sex..he can't be nice. I didn't know what to say I thought maybe he doesn't like me,but he insisted that he does.(he is too frank btw,he even can comment so so frankly),I don't know i usually don't do this but i told him i still like him and wanted to be his regular friend.he said he really appreciate it and means alot to him.some time later i even asked him maybe he doesn't find me beautiful but he said he does.i said if i knew he hated me that would have been easier..but he said he's not gonna lie.i said this seems so blur in my mind and i don't know why he doesn't..he said he doesn't know even himself I even told him i don't want to be in relationship with him right now but i didn't expect him to say that won't happen..he kept asking a couple of questions ...anyway we're still friends...but i so like to be his gf..he has many many things that i like about him..so special..maybe he's afraid of getting hurt.he's self-conscious ..or idk..maybe he's not honest..but he can easily say that he doesn't like me...what do you think?
Cee Posted September 29, 2011 Posted September 29, 2011 I know you like him and think you'd do well together. But he doesn't want a relationship. What you want and what he wants is different. You can't change his mind and I'm sure he thinks you are pretty, but that's not enough. Life isn't fair that way and that's why dating is hard. Try to break free of your attraction and meet other people. I know you want him to change his mind, but he won't. No means no & he said no.
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